my Bf and I have been dating 3 weeks last thrusday. I like him, but things are not working out. he wont do anything- hes afraid to even kiss me, and it bugs the hell out of me. the worst part is we act no different then when we were "just friends". i mean, i have interrests in more than one guy, but when i get a bf i am devoted to him alone. but my bf now makes me feel like we are still ust friends. and i am starting to be interrested in other guys due to this. including some of his friends. i know i need to break up with him. and i know i am doing it tomorrow, at school. but idk if i should do it in the morning, at break, at lunck, after school (idk if that one is possible). and even if i fugure that out i have no idea what to say. please help!
2007-02-19 14:42:36 · 14 answers · asked by LilDaniGirl8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should do it at school, don't hurt him infront of his friends and things...if anything do it after school
2007-02-19 14:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by choirboyzryummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe since he doesn't want to kiss or anything and the two of you relate as friends that may be your answer. Try to talk after school. Just be honest about your feelings and see where it goes. He may surprise you and tell you he feels more than he has said. It could go the other way and he may want you as a friend. If that is the case You win either way. You get a nice friend and you feel free to date other boys which is what you want . It is not easy with deep relationships in high school everyones feelings change so fast. I wish you the best regardless of what happens.
2007-02-19 14:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by phylobri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say...WAIT. Don't end it yet. You have only been dating 3 weeks. i had 6 dates with a guy before i finally had to ask him if he was EVER gonna kiss me. He did. It was great. We are still friends and that was 13 years ago. If you really do like this guy...get together with him and talk to him about it. He might just be afraid he is going to scare you off by being too forward. Find out what he is thinking...or try to anyway (not always easy with guys! ;) ). Three weeks is not long enough to make or break a relationship. Hang in there for more like 3 months. Let him know that you are concerned that he does not like you in the same way that you like him. Be honest with him and ask him to be honest with you too. If it turns out after your talk that things are not going well, then just tell him something like, "Well, it seems like there is no reason to carry on like this any longer then." Okay...i hope things work out for you. Please don't break his heart yet...he may care for and respect you more than you realize! Best wishes!
2007-02-19 14:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by fair blue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen how about giving something to the relationship. He clearly has no idea about how to kiss you properly. If you know teach him, be patient and make him the best kisser, invented by you to kiss you. If you have no idea how to kiss then tell him you care so much for him you want to learn together. If you can't be bothered to help him get over his shyness then break up with him after school so he can go home and be upset there rather than during school hours.
2007-02-19 14:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him at the end of the day. You must do this in person..Just let him know that you feel like the two of you act like friends and you want to be with someone who treats you like more than a friend. Be very up front about it and straight to the point. Good luck!
2007-02-19 14:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to take it slower, three weeks is a short time, you are going to intensely too fastly. perhaps youre scaring him even more by your advances. you are bf and gf because you were good friends in the first place being bf is just taking that friendship to a higher level but that doesnt mean you have to be all over each other right awway.
shame on you for breaking up with him for the wrong reasons, tho beggin your pardon,
perhaps you shouldnt be with him if you feel that way anyway
dont hurt his feelings youll see him in school awkwardly
2007-02-19 14:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by JulyBeetle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 14:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by hayakawa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're fast, aren't you. BF for 3 whole weeks and it sounds like you're upset because there is no sex??? Maybe I misunderstand you....
Maybe he just needs to have something more with someone before he jumps into bed with them.
My husband and I dated for three months before sex. And I was 22 years old and he was 30.
2007-02-19 14:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good idea. I would have to end it too.. just find him before school and explain itto him. be like ever since we started dating I feel like we are still ffriend. we are like the same. and I am becoming interested in other guys.. just break it off dont let him make u stay... good luck hun
2007-02-19 14:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do it after school that way his whole day isn't ruined. You should really talk to it about him first and explain why---letting him know that you would like to be more like a couple.
2007-02-19 14:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Michy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋