It was only like 2 weeks long, and he is aware of his retarded actions. He looked me straight in the eye and said, "i love, and hurting you was the hugest mistake i've ever made." I really did love him and i know he did too cos his friends live in the same flat and they are always sayin, "gosh!, Danny never stops talkin about you, its like scary how well you to go together!" He wud always say i love and call me every day. should i take him back? HELP?!
2007-02-19 14:36:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should give him a second chance if you really did love him, but make it clear that even though you have forgiven him, you have not forgotten what he has done....but you will do to put it all behind you, if he ever cheats on you again do not take him back...he will only keep on cheating on you.
2007-02-19 14:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Pinklady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be time for some reflection. Go over the relationship from the beginning in your head, and look for signs that he would be a cheater. They might not be so clear now, but some things might become glaringly obvious after awhile. I'd say take a time out from the relationship to do this. Maybe even just a week or so. Just tell him you need a little time to yourself because you've been hurt. If he's a good guy, he'll let you have the time completely to yourself. Then you might want to break up with him. You might see that he had the tendencies to cheat right from the beginning. It's O.K. You both have plenty of time to relax and be single, then find more suitable partners. Then again, you might find out that he's a completely faithful type of guy and that the girl was totally coming on to him, virtually forcing him to do what he did. Then, you might want to reconsider.
2007-02-19 22:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is one thing to forgive and another to forget. u wont forget he did this and its possible that u can (and probably will) hold a grudge against him for quite some time and not trust him as much (which i understand). if u can get past that then i think u'll be fine because (and trust me on this) he already has if he believes u will take him back.
i feel there is no reason to cheat for any reason. if u do then u dont need to be w/ the other person and if u keep doing it then u really dont need to be with them. ask him his reasons why he did it and if he doesnt know then obviously he doesnt know why he wants to be with you. trust me u dont wanna let this go too easily cause it might happen again.
2007-02-19 22:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, if you take him back, you might be questioning him and where he is and who he's with. I don't think that would be a good feeling, you know?
I dont know if you really have feelings for him but if you do, maybe try taking him back and see where things lead to. Just try not to fall too hard too soon.
2007-02-19 22:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On a scale of 1 to 10, where do you place trust?
If its not 10, you should check yourself.
If it is 10, he violated the very grounds that you built your relationship on.
2007-02-19 22:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
memory lane you gotta send this boy a meesage for yourself and all the other womenout there who get cheated on. what he did is not okay and hell no you aint takin him back for none of his bullsh*t. it dont take two weeks of doing something wrong to realize that its wrong. and he has the nerve to toss the words "i love you" like rocks pitched into a river. please! let him go. LOVE DOESNT HURT!!!!!!
2007-02-19 23:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once a cheater, always a cheater. Take his most prized possessions and sell them on e-bay, that's what I did.
He always told me and my friends how much he loved me for four years, he was cheating for 3 and a half years.
You'll never trust him again. Actions speak louder than his kiss as* words.
2007-02-19 22:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Reserved 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No sorry, any guy who will betray a lady he cares for should not be trusted, he'll end up doing it again, maybe not tomorrow or next month, but he will do it again.
2007-02-19 22:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he,s a lier and the true is that he got caught and that was his biggest mistake, he could cover his tracks some women do but if he dose it once more time then dump the dog.bow wow.
2007-02-19 22:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..If he cheats once he's already betrayed your trust and will do it again...and a relationship without trust is only gonna fail and get people hurt...besides he doesn't deserve you.
2007-02-19 22:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋