i went to see a guy that i have "been with" before knowing that i came over there for sex but i couldnt follow through because my bf called and i got paranoid. guys do it all the time and i chicken out. is it fate telling me im screwing up a good thing or am i just scared to be caught?
2007-02-19 14:31:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has cheated me before to all of u that feel so sorry for him.
2007-02-19 14:38:48 · update #1
don't give up,it takes some practice.
2007-02-19 14:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should really think about the bigger problem ... Why would you want to cheat? Why be in a relationship if you want to spend time with other guys? If you end it now you can do what you want ... however, I contend that you should have more respect for yourself than this. "Chicken out" is such an inappropriate and inmature term. It says a great deal about your mentality and you as a person. Maybe you should stay away from the boys and take some time to find out why you feel the need to play around, cheat and lie. If you learn to respect yourself, others will respect you. Then again, if you want to be a gal that no one has respect for ... be as you are today.
2007-02-19 14:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thing is this. Since how long have you known that he was cheating in you? If the time is short then you have to give it time because love doesn't leave that easily. The second part is that if you don't mind living with someone that is a cheater then continue but I don't recomand it. After all he has to be yours not other's. The third part has got to be the one that you will be truly grate full when its over but you will look in the mirror and say. "I am one of the few woman that accually left someone they truly loved because they loved their life more" And don't be ashamed by your descitions there is always a solution for each one of them and in your case. I think that the best solution for this situation is for you to do more sacrafices and leave him.
2016-05-24 18:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel guilty for attempting to cheat, you probably should not do it. I think if someone wants to cheat, they will--bottomline. I am just wondering why you would want to cheat on your boyfriend? Apparently you feel he deserves to be betrayed (or perhaps its payback). Since you feel that way, why not just cut your losses and end the relationship? I do not understand people cheating to get back at someone or out of their own selfishness...
Revenge is a double-edged sword, don't cheat on your bf even if he cheated on you. You leave him if he cheats and if you feel obligated to stay then thats on you.
2007-02-19 14:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by ♥CJ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend if you want to cheat, you are sending the wrong message to the other guy if you cheat on your bf then you will cheat on the other guy
2007-02-19 14:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may as well go the full way with the other guy because the fact that you even went over to his place for sex is bad enough...
I feel sorry for your boyfriend.
2007-02-19 14:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even think of cheating? You shouldn't be with someone if you want to "screw around" Do you have morals?? How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot?
2007-02-19 14:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by pecie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're in a relationship being with anyone else is wrong and THAT is probably why it bothered you. If you were going there to cheat on him, then why be with him? You need to find someone who is going to keep you away from other men.
2007-02-19 14:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shoudlnt cheat on ur b/f because u will hurt him really badly. if u want to be with this other guy and have sex with him and everything. break up with the b/f u have now for u dont break his heart even more by cheating on him.
2007-02-19 14:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already cheated because you thought it. Circumstances stopped you and it isn't true that guys do it all the time. If all the guy you know do it you are in the wrong crowd.
2007-02-19 14:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what you are saying here is that you have no character, honor, self respect, discipline or integrity what-so-ever. Guys don't do it all the time! That's just an excuse you use to justify your own bad behavior!
Grow up!
2007-02-19 14:37:40 · answer #11 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋