I'm 13, so i'm not so sure if I really want to make out with him yet. But he wantes to make out with me. He's 13 too. Help me! Please, don't answer if you're just going to say "Why wouldn't you want to make out with him." I don't need crap like that waisting my time. For people who give a good answer, thank you.
2007-02-19 14:24:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend was in this exact same situation a week before.
I dont know if you kissed him yet but if you didn't, I would try doing other things with him (eg. hugs, walks, just staying with each other).
If you have kissed him, well just keep doing that, but in small doses. You know, if he says "Lets make out" crack a smile or just peck him on the lips.
If you really want him to stop asking you, just tell him that you're not ready. I bet that if he really "feels" for you, he'd definitely hold.
Good luck!
2007-02-19 14:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soccer Crazy! You have a good head on your shoulders. You like him but you don't want him to pressure you into a situation that you just are not ready for.
Bottom line: You need to tell this young boy that and if he doesn't listen show him too the door. NO, one should force, bribe, or threaten you into doing anything sexually you do not feel comfortable doing. I know it is going to be hard but as a young woman you have the right to make a stand and that is what womanhood is all about know how, when and why you need to make the right choices even when everyone around you doing it or you have tremendous pressure to follow sticking too your guns makes you more of woman than having sex.
2007-02-19 14:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have some doubts, listen to them. You have a 'gut instinct' or 'first instinct' for a reason. Ever felt something was wrong but you weren't sure, your conscience is telling you that it's not totally altogether right! Go with it and see what you feel.
If you decide you don't want to, then he shouldn't be that upset - it's been 3 months, that's still new right? And plus, you're only 13.
If you do, go for it.
2007-02-19 14:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it if I were in your position...but just do what you feel is right and it will all come to you when the time is right. If your boyfriend really cares about you, then he would respect the fact that you want to wait a while until you wanna make out with him.
2007-02-19 14:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by 1tuffcookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thirteen is so young to have this pressure from a boy. Why not be honest and tell him you are not ready for this yet. If it is not this boy, one day there will be another .. one fact is for sure, you will know when your ready - without question. You sound like a nice girl, and a smart one to think this through. Enjoy life .. the rest will fall in place ...
2007-02-19 14:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you're older b/c you'll be tellin people your first kiss was at 13 and they're goin' to give you a dirty look b/c thats how society is nowadays and save your first kiss for someone special not a 13 yr old who's gonna break up before hs b/c after a while relations wear out and we move on goodluck
2007-02-19 14:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by yukonSLT3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girlie! Well i was 12 when i first made out with a guy! we used tongue too but different people have different feelings about it. Do wutever you feel comfortable with! Well now im 13 and yeah making out its like not really appealing so much any more! hope i helped girlie c ya
2007-02-19 14:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bobby_Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the guy who said you got plenty of time later,you shouldn't even be thinking of guys at 13.There's so many other important things to think about.You need to be concentrating on your school work and soccer games and friends,softball,basketball.Stay busy and don't get caught up in that boy friend thing at your young age.Good luck to you young lady .Take care of yourself and always do the right thing and you wont regret it.
2007-02-19 14:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by sasyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your to young for that my dear. And glad to know that you did not give your self up to him that easy. There is a bright future waiting for you. Better yet avoid moments that you guys will be left alone. You can enjoy your relationship (though your to young) without doing those crazy stuff.
Now if he will insist, I would suggest, you break up with him because he cant wait for the right time.
Take Care!
2007-02-19 14:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by jan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go with what your gut tells you...if you don't want to make out then don't. Don't let any guy pressure you into anything you don't want to do. Tell him how you feel that is the only way he will know.
2007-02-19 14:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋