well i like this guy in grade 11 im in grade 9 ive liked him since last year just ive never actually KNOWN him...but he's my gym peer tutor this semester.. i think hes actually noticing me now and i wanna go talk to him but i dont really know how to go about it.....any advice would be helpful :)
2007-02-19 14:21:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really good to just play it cool. Find something you both like, and bring it up. Talk about it, but don't go on and on. Leave it for a little while, and if he seems interested, keep making friendly conversation. A lot of great friendships start out just like that. Once you've developed a bit of a friendship, it's so easy to see how you and/or he feels about taking it to the next step. Just don't go too fast. And be yourself. That's quite key. Good luck!
2007-02-19 14:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqui Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tough call. He may quite likely be more interested in 'girls' his own age. There's quite a difference between grade 9 and 11. You've got a 'crush' on him it seems - good part of growing up. Things will be what they will be. You want to approach him, but you fear potential rejection. Again the age difference is one factor. There may be others. You're definitely not alone.
2007-02-19 22:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so cliche, be yourself and just act like he is a good friend that you've known for a long time. Try to relax and talk about what he likes and talk about him. Guys love talking about themselves.
2007-02-19 22:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok 1st, learn how to dress, like a hot chick, ok and also, try to find out what he likes and things like that, invite him to a party or have a lil get-t0gether. Tell him you need help w/ you homework/Tutor, flirt, talk to him and be yourself!!
2007-02-19 22:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When girls talked to me that were interested in me when I was in grade 11 (long, long, long ago) it didnt matter what they said or did (so long as it wasnt mean and abusive) it was awesome!!! That age difference is negligible as long as you and he are of equal physical and mental maturity.
Good luck!
2007-02-19 22:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by carpentryman05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliment him on something he is wearing or something he is doing...this is the best way to strike up a conversation and show interest.
2007-02-19 22:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to join you for a burger or a coffee somewhere.
2007-02-19 22:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL SINCE YOU HAVE HIM GYM TRY TO COMPLEMENT HIM IN SOMETHING HE DOES...OR IF HE MAKES A JOKE LAUGH AT IT...IT SHOULDNT BE SO HARD JUST TRY TO TALK TO HIM ASK HIM QUESTIONS...
2007-02-19 22:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by CHINA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might need to leave this older guy alone if you don't know how to approach him that should tell you something.
2007-02-19 22:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him like you would treat your friends.
2007-02-19 22:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋