Being with them meaning having a relationship with them.
2007-02-19 14:18:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you a leader or follower? In real life being with a woman that many years older than you will be the leader aka mother figure. do you lack a mother figure in your life? do you yearn to learn life through an experienced woman? sometimes what we think we want, doesn't turn out the way we expect it to. My man felt the same way. I am only 3 years older but have experienced more in life than he has. He is all cool to learn about sex through me but hates when I feel the need to warn him of life stuff. Maybe it's not my place but I can't seem to see a person running into a wall in life and not make an effort to help. I think it makes him feel less of a man. Being a woman I have motherly instincts (liking it or not) and I worry too much some times. It gets worse as we get older I'd imagine. I suggest if you decide to try this, wait till you are 18 or older. But anyways fantasies are just that, you are not always meant to fulfill them. Hope this gives you some insight.
2007-02-19 14:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Starshika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal to fanticize about them, just don't anticipate ever actually being with one.
2007-02-19 22:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by kaleidoscope_eyes33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a female your thinking of...quite Normal.
Age, many would have you believe it stems from 'issues' of whatever form...sexual; mommy figure etc...And it may be...it may not be. I don't know you or your life.
But think about this: she's of the right sex; you're @ an age where your sexual thoughts are runnin' rampant...and n/e-ways older women are SEXY!. Their confident(in many aspects), got positive things going on in life,and old enough to know how, and young enough to know better.
2007-02-19 22:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by BamCaliFlaVa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very normal. My male friends have told me that they fantasized about middle-aged women all the time when they were teenagers.
2007-02-19 22:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it is better to find girl same age like ur age. Cuz both of u can communicate well , but of course for fantasy is fine
2007-02-19 22:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by greatflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not nowadays with the media tv, movies focusing on middle aged women and open sexuality. 30yrs ago tv shows didnt show ANYTHING like kids are subjected to now. its disgraceful. stay young. peace
2007-02-19 22:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welllll... lets say its unusual. If you can find a nice middle aged cougar,who likes you, u have a much better chance of loosing your virginity then if u dated a girl ur own age.
2007-02-19 22:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tim'sSO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop looking at magazines and get a myspace hahaha jk stacy's mom has got it goin on huh? well i guess its normal to compare older females to your female friends right now to see who's lookin good at 40
2007-02-19 22:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by yukonSLT3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah dawg itz all good, middle aged women late 20's-30's are good b/c they're more in touch with their sexual side, (MILFS) itz always good to get with a hot 30some yr old woman.....they're so uninhibited....sexual....Itz good to faticise but if you have a chanace go for it trust me, itz worth it.....
2007-02-19 22:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Naz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, when i was 15 i fantasized about pretty much every woman i saw. stick with one your own age, they will taste better.
2007-02-19 22:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by glass. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋