It was only for a little while and he said that kissing her was never the same when he was with me. he is the sweetest guy ever and he said hurting me was the biggest mistake ever, and when he says it he looks straight into my eyes. i truley trust him.DO u think i should take him back?
2007-02-19 14:16:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I may give him a chance, but only ONCE. He needs to know why he is doing it to hurt you.
2007-02-19 14:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should put him on a short leash,once a cheat always a cheat.It is totally up to you,whether you want to trust him again or not.Woman kill me when they say he's a nice guy and he's so sweet.Well think about how you describe him,and if he was all that you said he is,then cheating on you would not have been an option for him.Whatever his reasons were,it still questions his trust level.The fact that he would tell you that kissing her was not the same as when he was with you,the fact that he compared the two,should tell you he was thinking about you and still continued to cheat.Wise up.If you forgive him then be prepared to find out that he cheats on you again.If he thinks that you will forgive him so easily,he will think he could get away with it again.Lay down what you will put up with from him and what you won't,and then maybe he might think about it before he does it again.Don't fool yourself nice guys cheat to,they feel they could get away with it more because they know how they treated you,so they know you will forgive them easier.Good luck
2007-02-19 14:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Iam sorry hon, once a cheat-always a cheat.
He needs to EARN his way back into your trust.
If you have to ask---you already know. Be true to yourself. There are plenty of men that wouldn't even THINK about kissing another if they had you. Yes, we all make mistakes, but we pay for them too.
Can you forgive him and move forward like it never happened? What re-assurance do you have, other than an apology, that you can trust him? Words are cheap-actions speak louder.
2007-02-19 14:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never trust him again if I were you. If he was really the sweetest guy ever, then he would not have even considered making a mistake like this. He would have kept his lips to himself!
2007-02-19 14:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once he thinks you completely trust him again, he'll cheat again. I was with a boy who did the same exact thing to me, and i was so young and silly to believe him. Just don't take him back and know that because you moved on, you grew up a little more. :) Good luck.
2007-02-19 14:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you!! He actually physically was with another girl... how can you "truely trust" him?
Be careful about taking him back as if the temptation to cheat on you was there before, then its almost guaranteed to come back.
If your going to take him back, then just let it be known to him that it was his first and final chance and he messes with you again its over. You be the boss.
2007-02-19 14:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Don't trust a cheat. If you let him get away with it he will do it again.
2007-02-19 14:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by space case 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! LEAVE HIM. Don't waste your trust on him. You will find someone else who respects you enough not to cheat on you.
2007-02-19 14:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Pinky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl to each it's own....personally if it were me I wouldn't but everyone is different.Follow your heart.
2007-02-19 14:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Cookie48 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not... its a test between you who really can feel he is right for you
2007-02-19 14:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by desiree gersaniba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋