Should I tell her she was cheated on?

Question

If I know a guy cheated on a girl, which I think is disgusting, and they have been broken up but they may not be completely over each other yet, and she just asked me if he cheated during the exact time he did, should I tell her the truth and uncover this guys lie?

Answer 1

Tell her. It's only fair for people to know the truth because then they can base their future decisions around it. I know that if I had known certain things when I was considering leaving my bf, I would not have stayed with him when he asked me to. Would have saved me a lot of pain & regret later.

Lying to her would be further hurting her, just like her ex. Support the person who deserves it, then feel proud that you're one of the good guys.

Answer 2

It may be best to leave sleeping dogs lie, unless they are thinking of getting back together or anything.
If it was me i would want to know the truth even if we werent going out anymore.
Be aware though, the guy may not thank you for telling her n she may not be very happy to hear the truth even though she asked you the question!!

Answer 3

Most definitely. I was in the exact situation. Right before last summer, a guy I liked said he liked me, but he had a girlfriend. A month later he told me he dumped her and asked me out. We dated for about two months before I dumped him because of how he was treating me. I didn't find out until December (4 months later) that he hadn't broken up with his girlfriend until a month into our relationship. I had felt guilty up till then. She's going to be really hurt, but she'll get over it faster. Tell her it's okay to cuss him out when she finds out. I wish I had.

Answer 4

No. You're under no obligation to serve the role of a moral police. Besides, it will be unethical of you to get involved in the personal business of others. If she starts asking questions of such nature again, tell her politely that you prefer to stay out of whatever is going on between them.

Answer 5

This cheater guy needs to be exposed for what he is and she
needs to know. My friends didn't tell me about one of my boyfriends episodes and it did finally come out. It was the root cause of his insecurity and jelousy that he can't be faithful.
I wasted to much time with this idiot. She should run as soon
as she can and knowing the truth sometimes gives one enough
reason to finally do what we need to do and BAIL.

Answer 6

Your just a guy, your nuetral. You tell this girl that your betraying your friend and this girl is going to bring up your name when she confronts him or she can leave tracks.LEAVE NO TRACKS. If this girl is your friend tell her but if not the problem will work out. The guy will just get another girl so none of this should affect you , but my advice is stay nuetral.

Answer 7

Heck yes!!! If I was her I would want to know..especially if I was having a hard time getting over the guy and was thinking about getting back together with him!!!

Answer 8

Well..regardless of whatever, if the tables were turned, would you want her to tell you? None the less...what people do in the dark, will ALWAYS come to light. So she will find out either way.

Answer 9

BIG NO!! If they are broken up and she still has feelings for him, you will only cause her to hurt more. What if you do tell her and she confronts him and he lies. She might end up believing him over you and that could end up ruining your friendship.

Answer 10

Go with your gut. You have to be true to yourself. If you think you should tell her, then do it. If you cannot live with yourself, then don't. I wish you the best sweetie, this is a horrible situation to be in, been there, done that. Good luck.