What is the best way to removes one's libido? (Sexual desire)?

Question

I am done with women. Seriously- I'm am SO sick of the heartbreak, the drama, all the crap that is associated with relationships. (And don't tell me to turn gay because 1: I'm not gay, so I wouldn't be interested anyways, and 2: I want to be done with romantic relationships, PERIOD. I want OUT. DONE.) Any advice on what I can focus on or do to distract myself from all of the beautiful girls I come across in day-to-day life?
I'm 18, if that makes a difference, in terms of school, etc.

Answer 1

yeah, realize that beauty isn't skin deep....

Those girls you see plastered in make up and eye shadow, and whatever clothes someone else has labeled as trendy are pretty poor and pathetic souls being herded around by fashion executives that laugh at their superficiality and subjectivity of beauty.

Distract yourself by playing sports, reading the Wall Street journal, answering yahoo questions, and watching the Science channel.

Answer 2

Wow. It sucks that you are my age and giving up on love. I've only been in love once, and the guy dumped me for..well, I'd rather not talk about that. lol. All the heartbreak, heartache, the "crap associated with relationships", I must admit, isn't much fun. But the thing is, you haven't even finished college yet, if you are going. Your life is just starting. This is just the beginning. Now I hate to sound like such an optimist, because really I'm not. Not even close. I've been burned my fair share of times. What I'm trying to say is keep holding on. Giving up is not the answer..but if you're seeking for a break from women, distract youself with something else.

and for your sake..dont' listen to all these idiots and Castrate yourself!!! You will sooooooo regret it because sex is fun. lol.

Have a good day.

Answer 3

Hey dude go fishing or camping ,....maybe both. Your 18 y.o. by the time you are 18 and 1/2 you will want those things still working. I would be very surprised if 90% of the MEN that answer your question were dumped on by a girl/woman at one time or another in his life. Most of us felt the same way that you are feeling now. Please remember this (1) it is your gain and her loss. (2) there are a heck of a lot more wonderful ladies out there and one of them is just for you, (3) Always keep in mind that you are some one and deserve to have the cream , but the one that dumped you sure as heck wasn't the cream.
One last little piece of advice don't do to some lady what has just been done to you, or you will come out the loser

Answer 4

This is going to be a long answer. Hope you don't mind. You have only just begun to live man! 18 years old!? and ready to give it up?! Wait until you are 50 and have really been through some mess, you know, a couple of divorces, some children, paying alimony, child support, etc., working your a$$ off for 30 years, and then complain, okay? You are much too young to be getting so emotionally involved with girls anyway and being so serious about them and so final about this decision. Try this: Have friends, girls and boys. Do group things, etc., but don't allow yourself to get serious about any females until at least age 25. In the meantime, observe girls/women. Study them. Listen to what they say and what they do, what makes them tick. Try understanding them. Keep those eyes open and learn about the opposite sex. Right now, I believe you may have romantic, yet unrealistic, expectations at this age. Real life ain't the movies, my friend. Forget all those stupid love songs. It ain't like that. You need more time to grow up (not an insult to you), and time to mature, and learn about people and the world first. In the meantime, go to school take a class in a subject you really enjoy. Read spiritual type of books or any other types of books you like. Spend time with yourself and get to know YOU first. Get a good paying job, buy a freaking sports car, ride around in it, and enjoy your youth man! Travel. Don't get into debt, save money and acquire all that you desire and, maybe date some, but not seriously, and in then in 7-10 years, if you are of a mind to do so, think about settling down. You are inexperienced right now. Get some experience in living and life first. Remember, watch, listen and learn. Stop reacting and being so overwhelmed. Calm down. I think it's good and healthy for you to give up the girls --- for now, but not forever, okay? I feel you, though. You have a whole life ahead of you. And you won't be thought of as weird if you are not dating. Do your own thing for awhile.

Answer 5

Wow. My advice to you would be...don't be finished with girls yet! You are so young to have experienced such heartbreak. i hope you change your mind. Just wait a few years until your heart has had a chance to heal completely...but please don't give up. We are not ALL bad! ;) About the libido thing...well unfortunately there is no good advice for that. You are male, a young male at that. You are going to have sexual thoughts and desires. You can try to focus on something else, but in talking to the men i know, that is not going to help for long. Masturbation would seem to be your only reasonable course of action. Otherwise, you will end up so wound up with sexual tension, you will not be able to concentrate on anything else. You can't really avoid girls if you are surrounded by them at school. Wow...i wish i could help you more but i know that you are at the height of that sexual stage. Just try to give it time. You need to wait...get to know yourself and exactly what you want in a lady, and then start looking for a more mature lady when you get a bit older yourself. Hope this helps somewhat! Best wishes!

Answer 6

You could be the most popular boy in school. When a woman shows an interest in you deflect her attention to one of your friends, telll her you are already in a long term relationship with a woman in China and you are getting together with her after you finish school. But the tell her that friend A B or C really likes her and she should look into it. The trick here is not to distract yourself but the women. If you really don't want one the say you are already taken

Answer 7

Are you kidding? You are 18... I know you THINK you know all there is about live and love... we all did when we were 18... trust me.

But you don't.

Here's a thought, spend some time growing up, finishing school, gaining some life experience, maturing a little. Surprisingly enough that plan has worked for 100% of the people that ended up in good stable relationships.

Answer 8

Listen,this advice is coming from a man! See we are stuck in a generation where the more women you have sex with the more of a man you are!You "MUST" be careful and make them work for the cookies! Let them know at the very begining you want to take it sloooowwww! And that will weed out the nookie hunters from the real cookies! Guys look for you to "put out" or bleezy,blah!Don't do it so fast! make them wait for your goodness! And don't look for libido restrictors! Get you a toy until you find what you want!

Answer 9

lobotomy, castration lol at 18yrs...consider it a time for personal growth instead of relationship growth. Ur so very very young to feel this way. get urself situated to where ur taking care of urself if you feel so strongly at this moment. Im 47 and had my share of heartache to the point of feeling the same way as you...but I think if I were 18...I would think its because of inexperience. so go concentrate on something else to distract you. I will do the same in my life. everyone needs a break to heal and reflect and regroup and realize a fresh outlook on love is when you least expect it while youre living ur life and happy.
it'll come to you, looking for you. :) peace

Answer 10

Castration. Salt peter (not really....it's not safe).

Just find something else to be interested in and stay busy.
Also.... you could releave yourself of your sexual tension. If you know what I mean.

That said, you are young and it sounds like maybe you rush into sex too early in relationships. Take your time. Just hang with the guys for a while. You'll know when you're ready to jump back in.