Well....I like these guys and they like me but one of them lives pretty far away from me and if the guy that lived far away was here I would pick him over anybody but its hard to have a realtionship with him since hes not here and i like the other guy to that lives here i dont know who to pick because there really nice and i like them both! what should i do?
2007-02-19 14:00:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go with ur gut feeling girl! even tho u like both of them...sooner or later u are going to have to mke a decision, hopefully the right one. if u rele do like the guy that lives father away, u would kno that u guys could make it thro even tho u might not see eachother much. however, some people are unable to hold a steady and pleasurable long distance relationship. its all about the true feelings u have for eachother tho. i wish u the best of luck!
2007-02-19 14:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by XOXO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide. While long distance relationships are hard and take more work, they are doable. I know that you said that you like the guy that lives near you, but is it fair to date him while you have stronger feelings for someone else. Will you be happy with the guy that closer when you are so smitten about a guy thats so far away. Reverse the situation - If a guy liked you but liked another girl more who lived further away, would you feel good that he chose you just because your closer? Would want a guy to do that? In the end its your decision...
2007-02-19 22:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you.....how much do you like the guy that lives far away? If you like him a lot then pick him even if he lives far...If you think it will be too difficult to be in a relationship....give the other guy a chance....if it doesn't work out oh well, its not like you are marrying the guy.
2007-02-19 22:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pinklady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like the guy that lives far away enough then you should pick him. you'll be able to handle a long distance realtionship if you really like him.
2007-02-19 22:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try wit the guy that lives near u because the other guy might cheat on u and u would never know and if it doesn't work out at leats u tryed
2007-02-19 22:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by skittles_friends 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with the both of them. You are not cheating, you simply need two guys. Sometimes a person wants two cars instead of one for some significant reasons, and sometimes a person rather has two houses intsead of one... So, you can have two boyfriends, too. It is life. Enjoy it.
2007-02-19 22:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the one nearby. he'll be able to cater to your needs right when you need him. not saying the other wouldnt but it would be more of a hassle. keep in touch with the long distance guy just in case things dont work out with you and the one close by. you never know what could happen in the future.
2007-02-19 22:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you pick the close one, then youll be thinking of the far away one, if you pick the far away one then you regret not pickin the close one, its quandry , youre a big girl ,just make a decision for once
2007-02-19 22:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by smoothopr_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the closer one. You'll just be kicking yourself for taking the one further away and never seeing him.
2007-02-19 22:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the one u like more! ifhe really liked u and u guys were really into each ohter u would talk on the ohone or the computer!
2007-02-19 22:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jordannnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋