ok......well my boyfriend at my school wants to have sex with me but i am afraid and im only 13 and i have not had sex yet but he said it will be ok i like im so much we have ben together for like 2 years we have came close but i choose not to cause we were not at the right place or right time what do u think i should do???????
2007-02-19 14:00:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it, wait until you are older. So many people don't realize that sex is a maturity thing and at 13, 14, 15 even up to 18 are not mature enough norw do they have the life skills that come from raising a child if conception happens.
If you are not comfortable with exploring don't, enjoy being young and don't try to do an older, more grown up deed. If he loves you he will agree to wait until you both are older, don't fall for the if you love me you will do it for me spill. This is a con tactic that is much like peer pressure and can only result in a bad situation.
2007-02-27 07:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Emily M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you definitely should wait til the legal age. Its there to protect you for a reason. Sex is a big thing, think of all the consequences!! Pregnancy, STDS!!
Plus if you have to ask if its the right thing to do, then it obviously isn't!!
2007-02-19 22:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by x_kimmy87_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not, under any circumstances, give yourself to him. First of all, you are young, yes-- you may be smart for your age. So act your age! And remember that your body is the most sacred thing you have. WAIT hon.
If you do not, for the rest of your life, you will always remember this man if he is the first. He does not need to pressure you. Be true to yourself.
2007-02-19 22:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait another year or two, cause you don't want to accidently get a kid and believe me explaining to your parents how you got pregnant at 13 is very hard.
2007-02-19 22:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not have sex with this boy and you should dump him and join the cheerleading squad and study for your SAT's you'll take later to go to college. You're too young, honey. Save it until marriage.
2007-02-27 19:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple...If your not ready...then don't do it, you'll end up regretting it. I didn't have sex until I was 18, I just wasn't ready.
2007-02-27 10:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by He's my world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it, if you don you might rgret it, besides your too young, you got a long time before you should be thinking about that
2007-02-27 21:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by Supa Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait! You're way too young!
2007-02-20 12:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do it. I promise you that you will regret it later if you do. If your boyfriend's a good guy, he won't push you. Respect yourself.
2007-02-27 19:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont. dont do stuff you are uncomfortable with. if he keeps bothering you about it, it might be time to move on.
2007-02-19 22:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by MojoFace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋