healthy and it has also caused me to take people back that I shouldn't have.
2007-02-19 13:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loneliness is a mind set. You can be alone and not be lonely. To remove this fear, start enjoying your own company. It is better to be alone than to be with the wrong one because of it. Another person does not complete you. Nor is it someones elses responsibility to entertain you. That is your job. Start doing things you enjoy doing and do them alone. It may be scary at first, but have confidence in yourself. If you get an active life without worrying if anyone is there to accompany you, you will be surprised how ATTRACTIVE that is and how others will be drawn to you because you have such a full and balanced life within YOURSELF. You can do it.
2007-02-19 14:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, find things that you can do that make you happy. Whether it be spending time with family and friends. Get involved doing things you love doing. Your hobbies, interests, career, ect. Go out and just have a good time with friends and family. There is nothing wrong with being single and enjoying your alone time. Focus on yourself and your future. I'm single and very happy. Sure, I'd like to meet someone and share my life with them. However, I'm not going to get into a relationship just because I'm lonely and feel alone. I've done the same things you have and learned that it's better to be happy and alone than with someone and completely miserable! I have tons of friends and nephews and nieces that keep me busy. I have no time for drama! Just think of all the great things you can do alone..without anyones permission...You can flirt with anyone..leave on vacation do almost anything...You're single! Don't let soceity tell you if you are alone then you are a loser. Just be happy and you will find someone to share it one day. Be optimistic about life.
2007-02-19 14:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes being alone can be good for you. you can think more and have more time for yourself. And you can realize what type of person you want in your life.
2007-02-19 14:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Babycakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, start separating yourself from the croud. find a nice hobby and maybe listen to music when your alone. then maybe you'll get used to it, and possibly even enjoy being by yourself
2007-02-19 14:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by **B-ritt** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was my problem too. You need to self evaluate and find peace within so you don't have to depend on others for comfort. Peace.
2007-02-19 14:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you fine the one youll know it and you wont be alone your not any way we all need that lone time to realize who we want and what we want.....
2007-02-19 14:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by trinavanilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋