They broke up and only because she was cheating on him. And he likes me.
2007-02-19 13:53:49 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Thang 106 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope. that is going all against rules between us girls: do not date each others's ex bf!!! it does not matter that he likes you and that she cheated on him you should know better! if you go out with your friend's ex you have a chance of losing her friendship so if i were you i would choose wisely no offense! plus it would feel all awkward and there would be a lot of tension and hatred vs against each other from other friends who think that this idea would be low and skancky! have the morals and decency to think and do better as well as to know better and to be wiser! guys come and go but friends and family stay forever-that applies to family-unless you can meet someone and be friends with them for over 20 years or almost all your life!
best of luck
2007-02-19 14:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Golden rule, don't date your friends ex's. You'll probably lose your friend (even if she says she doesn't mind), and you'll probably lose other close friends respect at the same time. It's not worth losing a friendship over. That guy should know not to go after you either, regardless on whether or not his ex cheated.
2007-02-19 14:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends ex's is a big line to cross especially if they are close friends.
If its a close friend of yours and your worried how she will react i think you should confront her and tell her whats going on, let her know how you feel and how he feels but you didnt want to pursue anything with out her being ok about it. Having a friend you need to have respect and honesty, ex bfs are usually a boundary you try and avoid but if you cant i suggest you talk to her so she cant say you went behind my back.
Its best to just be honest with her before you go and pursue anything then what ever happens after that is your choice.
2007-02-19 13:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you value your friendship at all. It's an unspoken rule - your friends' ex-boyfriends are off-limits. Even when our friends tell us they don't mind.... they DO. Unless he's Mr. Right, which it's unlikely that he is, it's not worth losing a friend over.
2007-02-19 14:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put...NO. That is not something you want to do. It will create bad blood and besides we girls have a bond and don't do that to each other, even if the break up was our fault. Men will come and go, but friends are for life.
2007-02-19 13:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by blonde4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should see if it's alright with your friend because boyfriends come and go but friends are forever so you don't want to mess up your friendship. stay loyl to your friends and they'll do the same for you.
2007-02-19 14:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, not unless you don't want that friend to be your friend. Unless she is just some popular bimbo who dated this guy for 5 seconds then I'd say go and get yourself some honey, honey!
2007-02-19 14:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Beachbum 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋