I LOVE this guy named tyler and he LOVES this girl named Kayla. I really wish he would realized she hates him and move on. Please help.
2007-02-19 13:52:38 · 21 answers · asked by Whitney S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only smart help anybody should give you is.....Give it up! you don't LOVE him if you haven't even been with him....yes - you may LIKE him but that totally something different!
Don't you want to find someone who LOVES YOU and not Kayla?
2007-02-19 14:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you can't. If he's really important to you, your best bet is to form a relationship with him (friendship). Then when he ultimately loses interest in, or gets burned by, Kayla, you'll be right there and he'll already know what a good person you are, and you can step up and let him know you're interested.
2007-02-19 13:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe talk to the girl he likes, and tell her to be honest with him about her feelings. Then when he feels down about this, you can be a friend he can lean on. Eventually take it further. If he knows you are trying to get him away from that girl he likes, he may take it wrong. So be discreet about this. Later on you could tell him you did all this for him, because you really care about him. When he figures things out, he may even get upset about this for awhile, but in time he will eventually forgive you. Especially if he knows you really like him alot. Also you could show him you really care for him, by doing things for him, or take him out for a friendly date.
2007-02-19 14:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 01:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him stop liking another girl. You just have to live with it and hopefully he'll change his mind. I was in a similar situation accept the other girl liked him too! ah...it sucked.
2007-02-19 13:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by ALL SMILES :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be jealous and assume she hates him, not calling you a liar by any means, just suggesting you look at it again. As far as loving him, if you love him you will want him to be happy, and if he is happy loving someone who does not like him back, let him, he will find out the truth soon enough, if not, perhaps she didn't hate him and they are both happy.
2007-02-19 13:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can't make someone move from someone they love. You just have to give him room to do what he wants and maybe one day he will realize that she isn't worth his time.
2007-02-19 13:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you cant make a guy stop liking another girl just try to find a guy that likes u
2007-02-19 14:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what im about to say isn't what you wanna hear,but you can't make sombody stop liking or loving someone. it is their decision on who they like or who they fall in love with. how would you feel if someone that liked you tried to make you stop loving tyler? wouldn't you be hurt? i imagine you would and you shouldn't hurt someone for your own benifiets.
Good Luck!
XOXOXOXO
*cRaZy ChIk*
2007-02-19 14:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people like you. Look at your question! No wonder this guy loves someone else. Leave them alone.
2007-02-19 13:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋