I have a long distance relationship and sometimes I have a hard time expressing how much he means to me without being there in person. He sometimes tells me that he can't feel what I say because I don't always show it. What can I do to make him feel how much I love and care about him?
2007-02-19 13:39:54 · 10 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to show him by some how expressing that you are off the market
maybe its making a promise to him and getting a promise band.. or maybe you need to start talking about future plans you have with him
saying you love him is oversaid by now.. you need make him actually see that you are serious about the two of you and that there is and never will be anyone else no matter what
2007-02-19 13:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by tiagraham17 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm also in a long distance relationship. You just have to find little things to do to show him that you care. Write him a letter (everyone loves getting stuff in the mail), randomly leave a message on his voicemail, send him a "thinking of you" e-card, send him an e-mail with reasons why you love him... there's lots of possibilities. The trick is to do it randomly, not to just wait for special occasions to do something sweet.
Think about what you would like him to do for you. That might spark some ideas too.
If you can find someting that means a lot to both of you, that's the best. For example... okay, just to warn you, this is THE geekiest thing in the world, but then again i'm a total geek... my bf and i both love computers and programming... so I wrote him a program one day in java, and he loved it. The trick is to find something creative, something that's from your heart, and something that has a special meaning for him as well. Without knowing more about you two, I have no idea what that would be. But you'll find it, if you think about it, and if you think about who you are and who he is.
Hang in there! I know it's hard, but if you two truly love each other, it will work out. No matter what happens, remember that it's for the best.
2007-02-19 21:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by maethoriel 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hi to add a little more ideas i call my overseas bf out of the blues just to send him a little kiss over the phone he loves it ,as soon as he answers the phone i give him a little kiss he falls more inlove with me each time. I also send him voice msgs i dont just leave a msg i sing him a love song somthing that makes me think of him i know i sound trouble but he thinks its cute,and i send him a letter every 2 weeks i dont bye him cards i make my own and try to think ok a little love poem to rite in it and along with that pic of me it can be anything but very orginal, like one i sent him wear i was dancing and anther where i was in the hospital,it makes him feel like he is here with me and if u start that maybe your bf will do the same and it will make you feel alot closer to him too. MY bf is from Pakistan and i only met him on the pc and we sent eachother promise rings so we feel as close as we can get i just hope i can see him soon we been talking for ayear and 2 months now hes just trying to see if he can make it over here or we will meet half ways, well at least thats r plan well what ever u do good luckand i wish u both the best.
2007-02-19 23:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by princess_ Lila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend lives just far enough away that I can't see him regularly, so I understand your dilemna. I leave him messages on his phone or email that say "when you read this, know that I was thinking about you." I also bake goodies just for him, and then Priority Mail them to him. He loves them for two reasons - first of all, they're goood, :), and secondly, when he gets it he knows how much effort I put into making and mailing it to him, so he feels special.
Just be creative. Think of something that he really enjoys, or would enjoy from you, and then figure out a way to give it to him long-distance. I'm sure you'll think of something great.
2007-02-19 21:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie dump the long distance boyfriend that kind of relationship usually don't work out. Try short distance relationship.
2007-02-19 21:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there no way to see him, recommend you to tell him you love him and that he means everything to you and that is if u feel this way .. but if u really dont know how to show him then u really dont feel much for him.
2007-02-19 21:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by yeni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
surprize him with a trip to....(wherever he is right now) it will show him that u REALLY do care about him and he will love you for taking ur time and coming around! also u will be able to vist a new culture and have fun with ur bf!!!
2007-02-19 21:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how much you like him and set up a time to see him (depending on how far) and just asure him that he is the only 1 for you
2007-02-19 21:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by Annie A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write him a letter.
2007-02-19 21:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him your nude vidoe.hehehe
2007-02-19 21:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by ~K3v1n~ 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋