Well I still really like my ex alot, but everyone said he treated me like crap but I dont think he did. we never really hung out outside of school events and when we would talk on the phone the conversation would be over after like 10 or 15 minutes but everytime I saw him I would feel so loved. He says he wants to get back together and told me to call him and I did call him and we talked and then he said he still does not know whats going on...and I have been waiting for 2-3 weeks for him to take me back. Should I want longer or should I just try to move on. I have tryed to get over him but it does not really work do u have any advice for me??? and if he askes me out again what sould I do???
2007-02-19 13:37:00 · 6 answers · asked by Lynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from this guy. He is either very mean or very confused because he is playing games with you. Cut your losses and find someone who will treat you right. Good luck to you!
2007-02-19 13:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him, girl. most of the time the people around you would see things more objectively than you do. if they say he treats you like crap, then he probably does. and look at the signs. he says he wants to get back together, but he acts differently. he lets you hang by a loose thread. have a little pride, too, and don't treat yourself like crap. you deserve better. there are a lot of guys out there, and not having one right now would probably be better for you for the mean time. focus on yourself and do stuff for yourself. go to the spa, shop, pamper yourself, make yourself feel pretty. anything that would make you feel a little better. and if he asks you out again, turn him down. he lost his chance. and always remember that you deserve better.
2007-02-19 21:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should re-read what you wrote here. You said that you have been waiting for him to take you back....you should never ever do that! You should date people who WANT to be with you, not people who put you on hold. I'm not saying he doesn't want you, but you made it clear that you will wait and now he is taking advantage of you. You are worth more than that, remember that!
2007-02-19 21:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Behappy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really that important to you? Or is it that you are just lonely? I think that if he can't give you an answer and keeps beating around the bush maybe its time to find someone that will give you the time of day.
2007-02-19 21:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i just dumped my bf and everyone said he was mean but he cryed whenever i broke up with him. now he is with my best friend so if he ever asked me out i would so get together with him again. i say go for the man, it may be your only chance!!!:)
2007-02-19 21:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by kitty_cute102000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro's be fore ho's. Or in your case chicks's before *****
2007-02-19 21:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by theguywith10toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋