him because is is known as armed and dangerous.I am 26 years old and i just do not know what to do.I just do not enjoy being with him anymore.I want to be more independent.I have no income if I do leave him so I do not know what to do.Help please this is serious it is making me so depressed.I am afraid to tell him no about anything.I live in a small town where there is no help for women in a situtation like mine.
2007-02-19 13:35:27 · 15 answers · asked by sweetthing2641179 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plan your escape. You have to obtain the money to secure a new place. There may be help in the next town. There is help SOMEWHERE you just have to find it. No parents or siblings to lean on? Even though it sucks, SOMEONE will give you the money to move. You have to ask for it. Get a job, do something, and plan your escape. Even if it takes a few months, start NOW so you can get out, safely, soon.
2007-02-19 13:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first try to get a job and maybe have it so that it is in a different part of the state and then as soon as u can just leave dont leave any info on where u went just leave a note sayin u dont want to be in the relationship anymore and that ur sorry and u wont be coming back and say that ur sorry that it had to end like this but u were scared
it might work i hope it does if u choose this answer as the best
good luck and the best to u
lifelessgirl23
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2007-02-19 21:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by skeletalgrlforeverwaiting 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is really dangerous, you need to get away from him. Can you hop on a bus and go to a big city? Get a job, make some money? Live out of sight for awhile? Can you go visit a friend out of town? Hey here's an idea.....Get him to break up with you. What's his pet peeve? Don't make him mad or hurt, just really confused, annoyed, bugged, smothered, ..... Can you get his mother or best friend not to like you? Anyway if the two of break up, it sounds like you should get out of town.
2007-02-19 21:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry that you are in this situation. if you have a car, get the h-e-l-l out of there! if your town cannot help you, go somewhere where they can. there are centers for women who need this kind of help. you need to just break away and never turn back. if you have family, stay with them. i know it will be hard, but be strong, you can do this. good luck
2007-02-19 21:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Madi's Mum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that you need to do is get in contact with your local woman's shelter they will have all the necessary tools in place to help you! Please don't think your the only one - Your also not going through this alone! there really is a way out and I promise! you really can find happiness once this hurdle has been jumped!
2007-02-19 21:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by simplysweetwomen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! that really sucks! umm my advice would be to defenitly end it before it gets worse, get ou and find a phone where he won't know where are, but get your stuff first and don't be too harsh on the phone b/c that could just make him really really mad, but tell him that you want to meet other people. Good Luck!!
2007-02-19 21:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by hotchik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To leave someone is never easy never but its taken the first step.and you can not stay because your scared and he is dangerous. and you can't stay cause you have no -in come.we have to learn to stand up on our own and .its never easy never.be strong and stop thinking about it and do it. now days there so much help out there just look for it..we have to stand up for our self.....good luck
2007-02-19 21:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Honey, I feel so sorry you are in this situation. You know, I wanted to try to answer your question but I can't and I sure hope others can. I just feel so bad. Bless you, Babe.
2007-02-19 21:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run to the nearest police station and tell them your situation. then call your parents, brothers, sisters , anyone who will help and ask for help. forget your pride just go. anywhere. good luck.
2007-02-19 21:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for battered womens shelters they have hot lines get out of there I work at one its so secret he will never find you and move on you to young to throw away your life get busy and get out now!!!
2007-02-19 21:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋