why fat girl or woman difficult to find partner or boyfriend?

Answer 1

Although it is easy for most people to say "I don't discriminate against looks. First impressions are not the most important because I look at their personalities" it's really hard to do. Almost impossible! And from my impression of boys/guys, they usually like to go about the first impressions ideal more than "looking into inner personalities"

Answer 2

Not all fat woman (or girls) have a difficult time finding a partner. Some men are shallow or just prefer smaller girls. And it can be the same for men too. Some big guys have problems finding a partner too. It just depends how people are.

Answer 3

The same can be said of a male that is over weight. The reason we/some in society tends to concentrate on the packaging rather then what continents of the package are. We forget that sometimes inside the pretty wrapped package is something awful inside or not all that great.

Bottom line: When you find that special someont that accepts you for you respect and love them, this doesn't mean you have to put up with anything just to have someone it just means show them all of what they give you.

Answer 4

It's not hard to find to find a partner, if you are looking for someone who has your likes and dislikes. Not saying you will have 100% every thing in common but some. I am a heavy women, and I have no problems at all. I love myself, so there for when someone meets me, they see my self confidence, and they respect me, and what I am about. Never have I been alone, because I don't depend on a man, I can take care of myself, and I know I look good.

Answer 5

In today's society many Men only want Women who look good on the outside, who cares if their heart is black or not. These men also don't want the hassle of taking care of these women's medical needs. I think that, to each his own, but don't judge people for the choices they make. Everyone has a right to love who ever they want, big or small. Just because the media portrays beauty as being skinny as a telephone pole, doesn't mean that is true beauty. I am glad that God reads the heart, and does not judge us by the outer appearance. Because if he did, many skinny, and ugly people would not make it.

Answer 6

Unforunately men look for different things when they are finding a mate. Many men feel they need someone good looking before they will even give somebody a chance. Not to be rude or anything, but I think it's because that whole male ego thing and the "competition" men are so fiercly interested in.

Answer 7

I personally dont think it has to do with the fact that there "fat". There are very beautiful "fat" girls out there. I think it has to do with the fact that some may have low self esteem due to there weight.

have you ever seem a very pimple face teen with a hot girl? Good self esteem always comes up on top. Regarless if you fat, ugly, or pimple faced.

Answer 8

Cause guys like girls who are healthy and fit.

It's part of finding the best mate...Women who are fat aren't as great at producing offspring who have supermodel good looks. For some reason (and no offense intended) they are also less capable to have kids as a healthy woman is.
Let me explain:
Women who are obease are less as fertile, and when they do have children, the children are more likely to turn out with wierd mental (and not to mention physical) disorders. We're talking things like ADD, and the like, not drastic things.

It's just that in the mating game, the male wants to mate with the best female in order to secure his genetics and the like so that his line can survive.

Answer 9

Typically they don't find it all that difficult. I know plenty of fat women in relationships or who regularly turn down advances from guys.

A person's confidence, personality, and self esteem will have more bearing on them being dateable than their weight will.

Answer 10

i really believe that it is because most guys only care about looks at first
they meet a girl who is large and automatically label her as friend
they meet a fine lookin chick and label her as date material
big chicks such as myself have a huge problem meeting guys becasue we dont fit the mold
i am huge honey
but i am very very out going
u see i have a shitload of confidence and that is a huge thing that guys look at
nobody likes a debby downer especially not guys u kno ?
its hard but u have to put urself out there okay?
but be urself and dont take no **** from nobody
big is beautiful and dont let nobody tell u nuthin !
guys are idiots and it takes alot of time but u must wait for sumting good
dont u worry u wait and chill out