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Question

i wanna kno, if having a boyfriend and being with him all the time is going to affect you, or can u possibly get tired of him later on. You see my bf is 16 and i'm 17, we love each other and we spent a lot of time together, but people say that we're going to get tired i want to kno if das possible.

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Answer 1

This brings back memories for me. I met my husband in high school and we started dating when I was 16 and he was 15. I had dated several boys before him, but he hadn't dated anyone but me. Yes, we spent a lot of time together, but we also gave each other some space now and then. I would occasionally go off with the girls and he would go off with his friends. We also tried to do some group activities. Somehow, it lasted and we never ever got tired of each other. I think it is because a really close friendship developed, along with the romance.

I tell my teenage daughter that it is possible to "burn out" if her and her boyfriend devote all their time only with each other. It is good to give each other some space and for both to understand that it also builds trust and security in the relationship. As long as you really get along, like "peas & carrots", then you may just stay together and never get tired of it.

Answer 2

In life, you shouldn't go by what anyone says............only you can determine what's what because you're in it and every relationship is different. Of course in the beginning, you're learning about each other, therefore, you want to be together all the time. Note that it's important to balance the time out with friends and family. It gives you more experiences to share with each other when you two are a couple again.

Answer 3

I couldn't resist, but as a guy, some what older than you but still on the same page, you're young, of course you can get tired of someone especially seeing him constantly. In my past relationships it was nice to have alone time and not with the other person 24/7

Answer 4

Of course it is. If you're together all the time, you won't have new experiences to talk about when you're together. Make friends outside each other, if anything so that you'll appreciate each other more. Also, you can then go back and talk about all the things you did that day.

Also, to develop healthfully, you need many influences and opinions to learn how to weigh them. You can't do that if you're with one person all the time.

Answer 5

You need to keep things alive
also give each other space... you wont get tired of each other you will just become to attached that you wont know what to do with out the other one there... make sure you two do not move in with each other right away.. before you can settle down you must first learn how to be independent

Answer 6

Sure you could but you may not everyone is different, Remember as well you are both young so this relationship will not be the only one.. Live how you want to live (and how he wants as well) ands do not worry about everyone else..

Answer 7

Of course it is possible to get tired of him...unless u love being with him

Answer 8

well it really depends on how you two feel about eachother but really if it was meant to be then no but u also need to spend time with your friends and he needs to spend time with his friends ya know what i'm saying? anyways remember you two are still young and you both have a future ahead of eachother

Answer 9

yea to much time together u will get tierd and soon

Answer 10

i have goten bored w/ my bfs in the past