Is it attractive when young women party, drink, and have fun. Or is it more attractive when they party, dont drink, are laid back but still know how to have a good time? seriously cause Im the 2nd type and sometimes Im not sure how guys see that. if its unatractive that I dont drink...it wont change but I want a guys outlook on that.
2007-02-19 13:31:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a woman similar to you. I don't drink, but I certainly know how to have a good time. If you're looking for an easy pick-up, then you won't probably find one, but if you're looking for a good relationship with a good guy, then you're fine. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and he thinks I'm about as "attractive" as it gets.
2007-02-19 13:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know how to have a good time, that is the most important thing in life. You are probably around the wrong type of guys for you if you think this way. A girl is attractive if she looks good, puts out a good vibe and isn't a *****. You should not be worrying about what attracts a guy. You should worry about what type of guy attracts you. Once you start doing this, you will notice that too many guys will think you are very attractive. Good Luck and let me know how it goes.
2007-02-19 13:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by insidehomerun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guys are drunk around you, they probably won't be able to tell very well. However, if you still party and have a good time you'll be appealing to plenty of people. The only issue here is that guys like girls to get drunk because then they're easier and will do crazier things they're likely to regret, and so guys focus on them. Find some guys who want more than an easy lay and you'll have a plenty good time.
But hey, if you do just want random sex just communicate that to the guys. They'll appreciate it I'm sure.
2007-02-19 13:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You my dear are the kind of woman that a man will want. The party girls are just party girls not what we want to marry and raise a family with. I married the same kind of woman that you are and we have been married for 26 years and have raised 3 children. It's so nice to know there are some women like you still out there.
2007-02-19 13:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by chyatt@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like drunk girls because they're easy...
Suggestion:
Stop going to parties that everyone drinks at and look for guys in better places where it's not about drinking and partying.
2007-02-19 13:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Party and drink...hmm that screams "loose woman" to most people...I would rather they not be wild until they are with me alone and committed...drinking just to do it is a very bad idea though...
2007-02-19 13:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i don't think it is unattractive that you do not drink. that just makes you smarter than the people who do. drinking messes up your life. i know a few people who's lives alcohol messed up. don't drink. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-19 13:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably u are more mature than your friends and you already know that is not necessary be drunk to have fun.......continue your way, you will not be regret about it.But be open and share what you can following your own limits.
2007-02-19 13:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by mariposa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i`m not a guy but if i were i would want a fun loving girl who feels she doesn`t need alcohol to have fun....to thine ownself be true, girlfriend...I admire you
2007-02-19 13:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by heather h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jenni does it matter what i think or anyone thinks. you do what you think is right. i think you doing a good thing. don't ever change ok.
2007-02-19 13:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋