Im 20 and in all my life I have been a really shy in what talking to girls means. I haven't been in a serious relation with a girl in all my life I only can connect with girls when I go to parties and Im drinking,please tell me it is to late for me to change the way I act around girls or still I have a chance to change my stars??
2007-02-19 13:28:16 · 11 answers · asked by Guillem C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To thine own self be true, honey...stay who you are and you will meet the right one...yer only 20...soo..take your time...I like a shy guy myself...so will someone else...
2007-02-19 13:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by heather h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy too and know how it goes, but i've been in a couple serious relationships and i'm back to square one (recent break-up) all i can say is just try and be random if that makes sense if you think a girl is cute give it a shot. The only way you can have a chance at the target is if you take a shot. Hope this helps.
2007-02-19 21:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by helimac92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not alone and there is help out there if you need it. Check out Brian Tracy's "self confidence course" on CD. There are also books on the subject. Keep in mind that people like to talk about themselves. Ask questions and you will get the girls talking with you. In addition, it's really important that you like yourself and have some interests. If you don't have any hobbies or activities that you are passionate about go out and find some. They will make you attractive and you will have something to talk about. Good luck.
2007-02-19 21:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by loveistheanswer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up the book: "Double your Dating" by David DeAngelo
It's an ebook actually and should have all the answers to all your problems. It costs like $30 or maybe $20
2007-02-19 21:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 20. My husband was the same way. I approached him, so I don't think you have to change. Maybe the right girl will come to you too.
2007-02-19 21:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to worry, and I know exactly how you feel because i'm in the same position, and I know this isn't what you want to hear but its true, someone is out there for you somewhere and you just need to find them...haha if you're in the wisconsin area hit me up!
2007-02-19 21:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by choirboyzryummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not too late. But you have got to want to change, cause if you just think about wanting to change it will Never happen!
2007-02-19 21:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by morglovsya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sure u can change, just be ur self and talk to the like u r talkin to ur buddies, dont try hard, it will come naturally to u. do some self-councelling about ur shyness.remember its never to late.
2007-02-19 21:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by sanJose_Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 20, relax. You are still trying to figure yourself out, just be yourself and all else will follow.
2007-02-19 21:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to confront your fears -the drinking is such a turn off.You have to find some books on developing social skills and if its really a problem speak to a professional
2007-02-19 21:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by vox179 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋