i really like this chinese girl...and she kind of likes me too...but she thinks it cant work out between a chinese girl and an indian guy...i know the cultures are waaaaaaaay different...but i wanna give it a try...what do i do?
2007-02-19 13:26:09 · 21 answers · asked by Sleepless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it will only work if she is also willing to give it a try. You can not force anyone to be in a relationship if they do not want to get involved. I admit it's hard to date people from other cultures because asian parents have a strong influence on who we date. The older generations don't believe in dating outside our race. Sadly, without our parents support most asian women won't date outside of their own culture because we don't want to disrespect our parents. They might even disown you if you date outside of your race..I know it sounds unfair, but we unlike other cultures always..I mean always repect our elders. We have to go along with what they say or else we will disgrace the family. It's really a culture thing. If her parents are Americanized they probably will be ok with it, but it sounds like they aren't. Don't waste your time because it probably will not work out. Sorry, it's the truth.
2007-02-19 14:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You date her as you would any other girl. In the modern world there are some seemingly crazy combinations out there but really who has the right to say how you date someone? No one. Go for it and live your lives. If she thinks it can't work then it probably wont, just give it a try if you like eachother.
2007-02-19 13:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by ~Les~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just treat her like a normal girl and do some research on her culture and customs learn about her make her no that u can actually be together even if u are to separate cuture. just trust yourself
2007-02-19 13:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by stephie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. i am Indian too. but b4 u date her. take concederation, in our indian ure, you are only supposed to date indians, that your parents choose. are you parents up to it? or is your whole family against it? if so, do whatever your heart tells you too. my uncle has a chinese wife, and their marriage is working out pretty well, except the problem is half of our family is against it.. ask her out. duhh, or if just perpose to her
2007-02-19 13:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Karan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out, look the big picture, is she a human being??? well ya i dont think chinese are not monkey, and u are human too, so go for it, dont let culture pull you down, just learn the culture later!!!
2007-02-19 13:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by cb450t 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you like each other give it a try it sounds like you could teach each other alot.I think it take alot of compromising but if you care enough you will work through it.GOOD LUCK
2007-02-19 13:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im chinese! Haha...
Just ask her out. Simple. Don't worry what race she is. It doesnt matter that much. Go out as friends 1st.
& prove to her that you really like her! Easy!
2007-02-19 13:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well where i live it doesnt matter what race you are because everyone is completely different and we all learn to cherish all of our cultures. i say jus go for it if you really like her because you'll probably regret it if you never try?
2007-02-19 13:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by lasjflas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just explain to her, that if theres a connection between two people, cultures shouldnt get in the way.
2007-02-19 13:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by smiles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn as much about her culture and her family as you can. Love can find a way.
If you love her, and she loves you, you both will establish a blend of your own traditions.
2007-02-19 13:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋