well i like this guy at school and i want to ask him out.
but wat if he thinks im weird?
im 13 and so is he, iv liked him ever since i started high school.
If i talk to him s he gana think im odd? besides im too chicken to talk to him hElP!??
2007-02-19 13:23:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will help. okay there is this guy i like too and i want to talk to him but i cant since i am scared (and he is my best friends boy friend) but when i am near him i want to talk so bad. so i say i can and before you know it i am talking to him. but we are only friends. but if you keep saying to yourself i can do it i can. then youu will be going out with him soon. and guys dont make the first move they are to shy so he might like you. you just gotta take a chance. hey i took a chance with a guy and he became my bf!!!:)
2007-02-19 13:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by kitty_cute102000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one really knows how he's going to react to you until you do it. It's better to give it a shot than to never find out. If he's rude to you, then you'll know that he isn't worth your time. You should be with someone who's going to respect you. The sooner you talk to him, the sooner you'll either go out with him or realize he's a jerk - and you get to move on. Either way, you'll be moving forward.
I had a crush on a guy for four years (from fifth through eighth grade). I was too scared to pursue to him, and I was afraid he'd think I was a geek. This guy was the hottest in our school, was an athlete, and was very popular. After I got over him, I thought I was free. Then long story short, during our freshman year something happened that convinced me he had a thing for me too. Unfortunately, I had hurt his feelings, and though he didn't take it out on me, he didn't talk to me all through high school.
So ask this guy out!!! Don't be like me!
2007-02-19 13:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Opal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take some minor interest in him...wave/say hi to him if you see him in the hallways, take some quick, but noticeable glances at him (not too many or for too long, that will kind of scare him away a bit), if you have any classes with him, ask for some help...but just make sure you don't do anything that doesn't represent you/that isn't part of your personality...be youself when trying to get his attention. Hope this helps a bit - good luck!
2007-02-19 13:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just talk to him. Don't ask him out right away-that might seem kinda weird to him and it might scare him. You should just talk to him and then if you two hit it off after a while you should go for it.
2007-02-19 13:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by caramel_latte 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him, get to know him don't out of the blue and attack him or something... lol joking joking, if he's nice he won't think your odd just don't appear to clingy or anything, just talk to the guy.
2007-02-19 13:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by kahaluiboi808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is better if you talk with him, and include him in activities with your others friends, leave to the men the first invitation.Your image will be better if he does the first move.
2007-02-19 13:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by mariposa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say :"Hi, do you wanna hang out sometime after school?"
Simple as that.
You guys could hang out in groups. Its easier in that way. Good luck!
2007-02-19 13:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some balls, suck it up and tell him how you feel. Men respect the bravery you have for doing that and if they don't then they're not worth it.
2007-02-19 13:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Roxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if he has a yspace or cel phone.. it eases the jitters
2007-02-19 13:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by the sulky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a sandwich.
2007-02-19 13:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋