As far I know, men can have sex without emotional attachments forming. As for women, is there more then just the regular pleasure or there something more going on behind the scenes?
2007-02-19 13:15:49 · 34 answers · asked by gotagetaweigh 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For many (not all) women, there will be some sort of emotional attachment. That's how we are made. -L
2007-02-19 13:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Women are changing rapidly these days, but still most often a woman has a deep emotional connection with the man she's bedding or she's trying to make that attachment. That's why a woman will stick with a guy that is just terrible in bed and rarely say a bad word about him if he shares, or she thinks he shares, the same emotional connection that she herself feels. But a guy will usually leave a woman in a hurry if she's bad in bed but has had a lot of experience. A young woman can still learn, but if a woman is set in her sexual ways (like older women) and the guy doesn't like the setting(lol) then he'll move on to greener pastures, because there's not much chance that she will ever do things the way he wants to do them.
2007-02-19 13:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nature designed women to become more easily attached when they have sex, than men are...it harkens back to loooooong ago when men often deposited their seed in many women (they wouldn't do that if they got attached to one woman easily so Nature designed them to be more casual about it).
Women, on the other hand, were designed to become attached more easily because the man may well be the father of her child (back in the days before b/c was common).
Even now that men aren't needed to popuate the earth, that old wiring still exists in a lot of people...men find it easier not to attach themselves emotionally to their sex partners, and many women find that there's a direct connection between their vagina and their heart.
Understand this is a general statement and there are, of course, exceptions.
2007-02-19 13:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots more going behind the scenes. Women are not "that" into sex anyway. With them, many times, is more about the interaction with the partner. There was a survey recently where they asked women whether they rather have great sex or go shopping. Guess what the majority selected.
2007-02-19 13:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person, there are men out there that cannot have no strings attached sex without getting there emotions involved and other men have no problems with it and I think it is the same for woman.
2007-02-19 13:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's true...most women tend to have an emotional involvement with whomever they're having sex with. BUT there are exceptions...some women have sex buddies, casual lovers...whatever. Prostitutes probably don't get too involved. I don't like the idea of sex without emotional involvement. It's much better (for me) when intense feelings are there between both people. Nothing better...
2007-02-19 13:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do find sex much more of a big thing than men do. Men have sex ussually just to have sex, but most women have sex with a guy when she have strong feelings for him and when she really longs to be with him in a more emotional way than men do with women. Its complicated and of course doesnt apply to everyone.
2007-02-19 13:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by smiles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really that's a stereotype of men and sex. To think that a man would gain no emotional connection to those who he's sleeping with is soo prema-macho that it sickens me. Now sex and love are completely seperate, but it is a very bonding experience. So women aren't wrong to gain forms of emotional attachment to those who they have sex with. But to connect sex to love is wrong, you don't have to have sex to love, and you don't have to love to have sex. In fact one of the couples I've seen who loved eachother the most rarely have sex (1/every other week) and the guy doesn't mind. But the couple I know who hate eachother the most have sex a lot (1/every day. . . I know, I hear it. JESSE!).
2007-02-19 13:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not all women are the same. For most women there are alot of emotional attachments and for others there isn't n e attachments.
2007-02-19 13:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, I don't think you should group all women together on this, just as you shouldn't group all men together, everyone is different. But for me, I always develop emotional attachments, can't help it.
2007-02-19 13:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋