One of my best guy friends likes me and I think I like him back I'm afraid of admitting it.When we kissed I enjoyed it and wanted to kiss him again and I love cuddling w/ him.He wants to be my bf but I'm not sure if I want him to be bc I'm not 100% physically attracted to him and I have the tedency of just liking male attention and may confuse that by liking the guy. I love his personality and the overall person he is. Can somone please help!! Do you think I like him? Do you think I have anything to lose?
2007-02-19 13:13:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the best advice i could give would be to be honest. Say hey i like you but i'm not all that sure i'm ready for a serious relationship with you i just need some time to think about it. I think that you do like him but your still uncertain and if you actually do like him your heart will tell you the difference between liking him or the attention. Just let him know that you do care for him but your not ready for a relationship that way your honest and if you dont want to date him like that then no hard feelings cause you told him about that before hand. good luck hun
2007-02-19 13:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dark_Fire_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell if you like him or not. It sounds like you like him to me, but then you say that you just really like male attention, so it's hard to know what's really going on.
If you like him as a person and are physically attracted to him (even if it's not 100%) I think that you could definitely be into him. And I don't think you have anything to lose. I think you should give it a shot, and if it doesn't work out then hopefully your friendship is strong enough to weather the storm.
He sounds cute and sweet, give him a chance. Or at least kiss him a few more times.
2007-02-19 21:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Snow White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have him as a friend to lose. The fact that you even mentioned that you're not 100% attracted to him and worried about it means that looks are one of your priorities. If you really liked him, you wouldn't be worrying, you'd just go for it.
Keep him as a friend. Don't bother leading him on to what will eventually be heartbreak.
2007-02-19 21:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by ccom7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a teaser guysdon't think with their brain when it comes to cuddling you are giving out mixed messages. your actually a player be careful a player always gets played
2007-02-19 21:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% lust
2007-02-19 21:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋