2007-02-19 13:10:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't bother; move on
2007-02-19 13:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by TATAAAAAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is this:
1. tell him you still have feelings for him
2. tell him you wish you could be back together
3. If he says no, just move on.
But I'm sure you're asking the question because you want to know how to really get him back:
1. Try to remain friends with him. If he simply doesn't want to be friends then be nice to him every time you see him. Call him every few weeks just to say hi and invite him to hang out with you again.
2. Play hard to get. While he is arodn to watch you, flirt with every guy you see that looks more attractive than him, seams more intellegent, and all of that stuff, but make sure they only -appear- to be better guys and don't overdo it, because if he sees he has no chance competing with them then he's not going to come back to you.
3. Purposely make it look like you're out of his league now that he broke up with you, but then every so often give him a taste so that he thinks he still has a chance. Don't feed him the whole cake, just give him a bite and keep feeding him bites.
4. Eventually if you do things right, he should appear to still like you and think he has a chance with you. That's when you can either keep it up and hope he makes the move, or you can say something to the effect of : "I'm so sick of guys right now, I wish we could be back together because you're really the only person who treats me like a real person these days."
The trouble with doing all that, is that it takes a long time, sometimes months. And during those months you could have gotten another guy, a better guy even. But, if you're convinced that he's the best guy, then I guess this is your only option.
2007-02-19 21:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty,sincerity,loyalty and if you did something wrong ask for forgiveness. Take the straight approach ,guy's hate the beat around the bush deal. Do not try the make him jealous routine! If you still have a chance and your in love, remove all the stops, if he is really worth it. That's what I would tell my sister!!!!
2007-02-19 21:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy Ray!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up? If it was on good terms then talk with him and see if there's a chance you two can still be together but don't pressure him though. If it's meant to be he'll come back anyway.
2007-02-19 21:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know how you really feel,these days you can text him or e mail him or just pick up the celly and give him a call.He won't know unless you call or you can go the old fashion route and snd him a letter.
2007-02-19 21:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why don't you sit down and talk about it, did you break up with him recently? Around a weekish ago or about two weeks... It depends really if you broke up with him and he was really into you he might try to make you jealous... Try sitting down after you both cooled down a bit and talk about it... Make sure he's not with someone though...
2007-02-19 21:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by kahaluiboi808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hook him in the mouth and reel him in :)
Seriously it all depends on why you broke up.
Let him know you want to .
2007-02-19 22:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beg
2007-02-19 21:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him come back on his own terms, you can not force him.
2007-02-19 21:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out why he left.
2007-02-19 21:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by redman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bend over w/ a smile on ur face
2007-02-19 21:13:24 · answer #11 · answered by Joe Capo 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋