what do you think is appropriate for a 13 year old girl to do with her boyfriend?

Question

im 13, i have a boyfriend. we have already slow danced very close and made out and kissed and stuff...but we are both ready for more...what do you think is appropriate for us to do without going too far?

Answer 1

you may want more, but you shouldnt.

Answer 2

I think safety is real important. Make sure you have condoms and are on the pill because things get out of hand really fast. You might feel really embarassed to get these things but a pregnancy will change your life drasticly. many ,many 13 and 14 year olds end up going all the way simply because things get hot and heavy and they were not prepared. Even if you dont plan to go too far you are better off safe then being very sorry.(and pregnant)

Answer 3

sweetheart I think you need not go any further. You are only a child and hopefully he is only a child also. You are 13. Go to the movies, and if you were mine, it would not be alone with a b/f however please use your common sense and remember you have your whole life ahead of you and you do not realize it now but going too far now, you will regret it in the future. Have you talked to your mom, dad, or grandma or someone about this. You really need too. Do you realize what the consiquences could be going any farther. Please talk to someone you know and love about this. Honey there is plenty of time for sex when you are a woman. you are only a child. In the future you will see this. Go bowling, be around friends, go skating, go to the movies, just be around kids your age and have fun without doing something adults do. you are only a child. Or excuse me, a teenager now, but many years to go to be a woman. Good Luck.

Answer 4

I suspect that you already know this. I'm too old to even suspect that you are going to do anything except what you want. Consider the downside of "going too far" a pregnancy at thirteen is definately not a good thing, then their are all kinds of nasty STD you can get that will ruin your life for-ever

Answer 5

Take it slow, your still only a freshman(??). That stuff can happen later (maybe even when your married) but definately not when your 13. You will always regret it, trust me. Wait till u guys have been together for a while before you step it up a notch.

Answer 6

I am only 10 but I think even at 13 you are too young for a boyfriend

Answer 7

Well, you probable shouldn't go any further. Especially not sex. I know you have probably heard this a thousand times, but your too young. Heck, I'm too young. Just take it slow. There is really nothing else you can do without going too far. I hope this helps. Just think responsibly.

Answer 8

Honestly, not quite sure. I'm 13 and I've gotten to that first kiss but not much further so maybe I'm just a bit more inexperienced than you? Maybe you want more but see if you can take it slower....but if your both ready then I'm not sure...nothing too sexual.

Answer 9

No. You are way too young to go any further than kissing. I'd say you are too young for that but it is too late. Just be young teenagers. Worry, about that other stuff when you are older, like 18.

Answer 10

Holding hands is quite enough for now. You're too youn for anything else just yet. You have your entire life to do the other things so just give yourself time to enjoy your youth without a guy draped around you all the time.

Answer 11

you probably have done too much already if you were my daughter you would be grounded to your room till your 18th b day. keep a safe distance between you male friend. rememebr young lady you have your whole life ahead of you to try new things. if you do them now you will have nothing to experience once your older. be a 13 year old girl and get in sports and stay in school. there will be time for boys later. god bless you.