So my boyfriend of 2.5 years and I broke up on Saturday. I want him back so bad. I feel the reasons we broke up are easy fixes, how can i get him back. We broke up because
1) I'm too busy (so i cleared a lot of stuff on my schedule)
2) im bitchy when i drink (so i wont drink around him)
3) I'm not as... "experimental" in bed as he is....
How do I bring this up to him and tell him i want him back?
2007-02-19 13:03:24 · 14 answers · asked by Inlove 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be absolutely honest with him and yourself. You have nothing at this point to lose except what you have clearly given away. Please remember though to evaluate your real feelings and don't play mind games out of pure fear of being alone! Sometimes things don't work out for a reason. You have put a lot of time into the relationship though so there is obviously something worth holding on to...good luck, I am still trying to figure my mess out too.
2007-02-19 13:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by DBL L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, that is kinda selfish of him. EVERYTHING is YOUR fault? hmmm...but anyway, talk to him. Tell him what you said on here about 1, 2, and 3. Tell him he means the world to you and you are willing to do anything to try and make it work out. But keep in mind, that if you dont want to be experimental in bed, or you dont want to clear your schedule, then it is best to forget him. I know its hard now, but give it some time and maybe it was for the best. Good luck
2007-02-19 13:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by XoXoMoXox22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How 'bout not drinking? Or at least getting some self-control of it. Too busy doin' what? If it ain't job related, like you said, clear up the schedule. And the bedroom...if ain't choking or golden, give it a shot. (3 ways are out too).
Better hurry and tell him you want another chance, tho. It kinda sounds like you may have some "me" issues.
2007-02-19 13:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If, after making an investment seven years in the dating, he's "uncertain" then you could interrupt up and make a clean existence for your self. the two he's emotionally immature or broken yet you won't be in a position to sit down down around waiting to make certain. Geez, those are the suited years of your existence! end dropping them on a desire and dream that may not in any respect come real. in basic terms wreck up. Get counseling that may assist you recover from it yet seem for somebody new, somebody that appreciates you and is no longer worried of dedication.
2016-09-29 08:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by benisek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is talk to him. It might be kind of a cliche but communication is definitely the key in relationships.
2007-02-19 13:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Resignation for a job,don't drink,marriage him and said sorry to him.Very easy way.
2007-02-19 13:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by victor98_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you made a mistake and things were just chaotic. tell him you just had to think about things and that you can work them out. ask him to lunch to have a chat and maybe it will work.
2007-02-19 13:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you realy love him let him go you said your self that you a busy,bicthy, pillow queen, do him a favor.
2007-02-19 14:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can either call him & jus act like u callin to see how he is doing n jus bring it up to him..or write him..or jus one day have dinner wit him & talk to him about it...& see where it goes from there,
2007-02-19 13:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by crazysmith187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you call him and just say everything you just said on here? wear a hot blk thong to it woudent hurt!
2007-02-19 13:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋