2007-02-19 12:59:06 · 17 answers · asked by smily18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hate her? No. You shouldn't hate her. Feeling angry is OK, as long as eventually you let go of that anger.
Feelings of anger at a time like that are natural, and can't be suppressed. But hate goes beyond anger. Anger can sometimes be good for the angry person, but hating always hurts the hater. Ask her why she didn't tell you, and tell her that it hurt you. Try to forgive her. Trust me- you'll feel much better about it later.
2007-02-19 13:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well while I think it was wrong for her to move without telling you, I do think that "hate" is a very strong word. Tell her how hurtful it was for her to move without telling you. Try and talk to her about it. I am sure there is more to this situation then you are telling here on Answers. But my best advice to you would be to try and open up the lines of communication. At least then, you can get rid of some of the anger you have towards her.
2007-02-19 13:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. its not Ok to hate your mom or anyone just because she moved. May be you have hurt her feeling. Find out the reason, and then try to solve the problem. Good luck
2007-02-19 13:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Tamchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You should never feel you hate her. She brought you into the world she can take you out.just let her understand you was hurt and you don't understand y she didn't tell you or even give you a heads up while making the plans
2007-02-19 13:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by m b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..
she has her own life..and she's allowed to do whatever she wants...
maybe she tried telling you..but you never listened..
either way.you shouldnt hate her...you have the right to be upset though..but try talking to her..and ask her why she didnt tell you..and why she moved..
if she doesnt want to tell you..you'll just have to accept the fact..and you will eventually accept it .
2007-02-19 13:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you'll probably hate her for a while. Then you need to get over it and move on with the things you want to accomplish in your life.
2007-02-19 13:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but not to hate her forever I mean did she have a good reason for not telling you maybe its payback for not calling so much or something ask her
2007-02-19 13:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
You do not have to hate her.Although it will have been better if she would have told you about her actions before she move out.call her and inform her you were not happy about her actions and let her know how you feel about it.Please always give room for forgiveness, it pays to forgive.goodluck
2007-02-19 13:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not ur goin to hate her because of that come on think logically now plz
2007-02-19 13:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by marhayy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do whatever you want to do if you want to hate her cause she didnt want you to know where she lives cause you come over and always want money and she dont want to support you anymore
2007-02-19 13:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋