Why is it my ex wants to do it with me to think he told me the last time we did he knows that I was hurt because there was no US anymore. And he said that will be the last time and that's it no more and now I just couldn't imagine that he still wants to do it with me. Why is that? His gf is not here but we've known each other for 6 years now and honestly we are both comfortable doing it with each other. It's just that I don't know why he still wants to do it with me? Please help me ...... Thanks ms. daze and confuse
2007-02-19 12:46:42 · 16 answers · asked by Teacher Meg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's simple. He wants sex. You have to understand that sex isn't this close, personal and highly emotional thing with men. Just because we sleep with you does not necessarily mean we have feelings for you, just that we are horny. I'm not trying to be mean, but most women learn this about men pretty quick. A guy will almost always keep sleeping with an ex if she lest him get away with it. In his mind he has it better than he ever has...he gets the sex, but none of the emotional baggage that goes with it.
In short...he's playing you. Don't let him in anymore.
Take care.
2007-02-19 12:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ms. Dazed and Confused, the reason is that some men are pigs. Hes one of them. He had a gf , but shes not here, so your his "Booty call". Was his gf his "Booty call" while you were his gf? Something to think about.
Ignore his calls and just move on.
2007-02-19 12:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ms. daze and confuse----
whether he is an ex or whatever.....If you're offering ....I don't know any boy that will refuse..... On the other hand.....If he's asking you..... Be very careful.. He's playing around on another...Do you really want to be the one that's gong to get screwed...In the long run? Or worse yet, he may give you a disease you won't be able to get rid of. THINK ABOUT THAT!!!!
2007-02-19 12:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by snooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah i hate when that happens. Me and my ex split up recently and he still likes the idea of sex but nothing more. Which is hard coz he knows i still want to get back with him.
I think it must just be the idea of being comfy with you. Plus hes a red hot blooded male! So it could really just be sex to him and thats it. And goes to you for it coz he thinks he may get it!!
Men are such pains in the ****!!
2007-02-19 13:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by x_kimmy87_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, ur still gettin some from him? He has a girlfriend! It sounds like he's using you. I know some girls who were in the same situation and it started lots of drama and a cat fight. If I were you I would leave him alone. All the drama isn't worth it. Find yourself a guy who wants to be with you and only you.
2007-02-19 12:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys just like doin it! it's a great way to get a girls clothes off too.!maybe you are just a wild thang,or just good in the sack.
my guess is that his gf is bland ;or he might be bland to his gf thereby causing the bland gf.basically being that you are more comfortable and he likes what you do and how ya do it.lucky guy.
2007-02-19 13:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by mechlined 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just using you to get off. As long as you give this to him, he will abuse that opportunity. If his girlfriend isn't around he isn't getting any, so he turns to you. You're being used. And if you're not enjoying it (you did say you were hurt last time) stop letting him do this to you.
2007-02-19 12:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take this the wrong way but.. chances are if hes gotta new girl friend and is still trying to be active with you either shes not giving it up or your really good at what you do, in this case dont be upset.
2007-02-19 12:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl, ok its like if you went out and play da game and you had this great person in bed, whould you still go back, plus he still probably cares for you. just cuz you aint together dont mean he hates you. some times it better to not be together
2007-02-19 12:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by dianebarton86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still wants to watch TV with you b/c he has no other hobbies and he forgot to take the TV when you divorced him.
2007-02-19 12:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by Gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋