I've been talking to a girl named Victoria for a while and I really like her and hoped to get her to be my girlfriend.
On the day i planned on asking her this someone beat me by about 2 hours. The guy (now her boyfriend) is oblivious and doesn't really see that she doesn't want to be with him. I know she won't break up with him because she won't want him to feel bad.
What do i do to be her boyfriend if she already has this guy?
Also almost all her boyfriends have turned into long relationships even if she didn't want them to be. I don't really want to wait 2 or more months.
2007-02-19 12:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by Alex 4rm Eastside Fort Worth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would let her know how u feel about her. Buy her flowers and and then just tell her how much u like her and how good u would treat her and that u were going to ask her out but the other guy beat you to it. Hopefully she will say yes. By the way u don't have to buy her the flowers but it would be nice and thoughtful. Besides it would backup your words of treating her really good. Remember to just be urself and have confidence. Good Luck! I think she'd be lucky to have u as a friend and as a bf.
2007-02-19 13:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls use the excuse..."I don't want to hurt the guy," when the truth is, on some level, she really "wants" to be with him... sounds like you may just have to wait your turn.... it's really not for you to decide when she really likes someone or not, even if you feel she is in it for other reasons....sorry, but unless you want to confront her and tell her that you are nuts about her and want her to drop the other fellow and take you on as number?, then it seems like you will just have to wait her two month trial period..........p.s. when you get a bit older, you will realize that 2 months is not really all that long
do you really want to be with someone who changes boyfriends more often than she changes...well...you get it....
good luck
2007-02-19 20:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by amber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mess with a girl that has a guy. she has to break up with him first if she really wants you more than the other guy. i wouldn't wait around on her.
2007-02-19 20:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u were sooo close!
ask her if she will be your boyfriend. if she says she already has one, ask if she really likes him.
but first, are you sure she doesn't like her boyfriend much? No offense, but it could just be you. so make sure that she doesn't really like him and would prefer you.
2007-02-19 20:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by wordsofapoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and let her know jow you feel that is all you can do at this point really
2007-02-19 20:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Chris's Baby Girl '07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know she doesn't want to be with him? if she doesn't know you like her, she won't know. and i'm still trying to grasp how you know what she's thinking. and ask her anyway.
2007-02-19 20:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋