Guys!!! If you had a chance to read your gf's journal, would you? (- -,)?

Question

Is your answer:
1.) "No. I don't even want to know what's in there."
2.) "Probably not, but I'd be temted."
3.) "Most likely---if I knew I wouldn't get caught."

To Heart-2-Exist: Thanks again & again. You're witty and a bit creepy.. ehehehe.. Yeah, I guess you hit it right (almost). eventhough my beau & I communicate with each other everyday but it's way too different when we were together I must admit. Now I know what sacrifice means. lol! (- -,)

Answer 1

Hello lushbabe4u!

4) None of these above. A journal is a private thought of a moment in the person's life. It would be nice if we can read each other thoughts, just as if you can read your boyfriend's thought and feeling while he's living abroad somewhere in order to understand the complexity of other individual and hopefully that you can fulfill his needs. I understand that you are emotionally and physiologically lonely inside right now. But he is not here to fulfill your needs. That's why you are expressing your feeling and sharing thought, and sorrow to us right now. I would want to read your journal at this moment, so that I can understand your thoughts and feeling a little bit better. I know what you are missing it so much and needing it so much; that's alright a woman can have the same need as much as a man.

I hope I have helped to alleviate your emotional pains and sufferings. As for your "PHYSIOLOGICAL NEED", well he is not here at this moment, so it's up to you to decide if you WANT MORE, then just let me know when do you want me to fulfill YOUR NEEDS.

Thank you for your comment, it would be my honor if I can help you "hit that high note". Life is full with suprises, just when we think we might end up with that special person for the rest of our lives, the twisted fate has come to us and lead us to someone that we think is totally opposite to ourselves but in the end, we are not that much of a difference at all between you and I.

Grazie per la vostra mancanza gentile "babe di parole di lust per
voi".

Answer 2

I really wouldn't. It's a violation of trust and would say tons more about my character than anything that was written.

People who journal are trying to work through their own problems and issues, and most likely vent frustrations this way.

I was appalled when my boyfriend, in the heat of the moment, accused me of writing my diary "just for him". When I demanded to know what he meant, he said I wrote my entries to convince HIM that I wasn't cheating. That cinched it! Not only was he obsessed and jealous, he was deluded! It had to end, and he lost the best thing that ever happened to him.

Having permission to read it is a totally different thing than snooping. And guys totally hate it if girls snoop.

Answer 3

I'd like to say no. I mean, that's a pretty private thing and I wouldn't want her going through my private stuff.

But it certainly would be tempting if I knew I would get caught.

Answer 4

1 most of the time, but if there was trust and an explicit invitation, then 2

Answer 5

2)

Actually, I did read my ex-girlfriends with her permission. If I didn't have her permission, the answer would be 2.

Answer 6

most guys would choose 3

Answer 7

My husband would say 3 and he has (with my okay of course). Its just dumb teenage BS anyway.

Answer 8

Not if she told me to stay away from it, but then I would dump her just out of principle.

Answer 9

I'd do it even if I knew I'd get caught.

Answer 10

Not unless she said I could.