I finally asked him (through a text) if he has a chick because I thought it was weird how he never calls and only texts me. He said that no he doesn't have a girl but that's just how he talks to his friends simply because he feels he can talk better that way. Every month he uses about 9000 texts(isn't that ridiculous?) He also said he gets nervous on the phone like he has with me on the few times we have spoken on the phone. I mean we have hung out a few times and it's never awkward we get along super awesome and on the phone too we just talk and talk, but i do notice that on the phone and in person he does seem jittery at first, but once he gets comfortable around me he is fine. He's the one who wanted to know me (he did it through his friend at that, and even she told me he was shy). I don't get how a dude can be so shy to only text me every night, hardly ever asks me to hang out, and never calls. What's up with him if he doesn't have a girlfriend, can he really be that shy?
2007-02-19 12:32:11 · 8 answers · asked by no_trabajar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people really aren't into the phone, so as long as he's contacting you regularly in some way, that's a good thing. But you don't have to text him back all the time. Especially if it's costing you extra expenses! Don't try to pressure him to call you though. Just ignore the majority of his texts and if he wants to hear more from you, he can take you out on a date and spend time with you IN PERSON. But if he still doesn't ask you out, just forget about him and move on. Do you really want a guy who acts like that anyway?
2007-02-19 12:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's some kind of social deviate. He has problems relating to people and so the text messaging is a way to avoid any physical association with a real live person. He has some sort of a personality disorder and would rather be alone in his room. Don't expect to ever have any kind of normal relationship with him.
He does NOT have another girl. If he did he would not bother with the 9000 text messages, that's an escape for him.
2007-02-19 12:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are indeed that shy. These people find it easier to communicate through writing (email, text, letters) because you have time to think out what you want to say and you don't have to immediately react to something that is said. If something embarrassing is said over a text message, he doesn't have to let you see him blush. You say it takes him time to be comfortable either talking with you or talking on the phone and uses 9000 messages per month. I would say he fits that profile exactly. Help him work on his self esteem and build his confidence and you will see him begin to communicate easier over time.
2007-02-19 12:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 09:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i like to text my guy just because i have a delayed reaction to what hes saying and i get butterflies in my stomach when my phone rings cause i have a new text...i think its romantic or something like that..but i think if you want to have a real relationship with this guy you guys need to talk talk. and most guys are really shy even though they don't like to own up to it..hope that helps.
2007-02-19 12:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by ms_pepsi89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be the only girl in his life right now.
2007-02-19 12:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by babyangel81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes lying to you. hes got a girl
2007-02-19 12:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TWO THINGS: he's either gay or your not his main girl
2007-02-19 12:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋