Whats my problem?

Question

I think I may have a problem, I have noticed recently when I start talking to a girl, I will talk to her fine for a few weeks then start liking thier friends I dont mean to but it seems I always tend to do this. Whats my problem? is it Im always looking for a challenge?

Answer 1

We've already talked about this.
Leave the girl alone if you think you're gonna want to go after her friends... just go after the friends or something instead of pissing the other girl off to get to them.

Answer 2

You don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing you're a teen. You don't have a problem, as far as I can see. You start talking to the one girl because she's attractive and she's easy to talk to. Then her equally attractive, bouncy fun friends gather round, or you come in contact with them, and hey, you're looking at a great buffet table.
This is normal. You have to play the field without breaking hearts if you can help it, because that's just the way we learn who we really like and who eventually we'll end up with.
When I was a teen, I'd fall madly in love every three weeks. (I thought it was "in love" but of course it wasn't!):-)

Answer 3

like you said, talking to a girl, then liking her friends...
why or what would talking to one girl and liking her friends go to do with each other?

you're not looking for a challenge, you mind and heart are not in lined yet... you'll grow to see that one day, until then, enjoy what you have now and learn. :)

Answer 4

only you should know the answer to that. i would assume that you have a very short attention span. and my guess is, that you don't talk to the friends but look at them. they may seem more interesting because of this.

but you'll have to look into yourself while looking at them and see or feel what your thinking.

Answer 5

your verry challenging.

Answer 6

it is what it is playera