i cant tell if i m sad cuz i m not with this girl (not ex) or sad cuz my ex is goin out with my friend or both?which one hurts the most?
2007-02-19 12:29:00 · 6 answers · asked by Zack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh !not the friend thing.i know that puts a knot where a knot should'nt be.
you are young. it gets easier to take as life goes on.i can give you my recipe for this kind of crap.
don't fight it . if i were you i would try to stay good friends with her.i have found that x's make excellent friends.(if you were ever really friends). i keep in touch with with most of my x's.one for over 20 years.and ya never can tell when they will break up.sometimes it is very good to be there when they need comfort.
it doesnt hurt to have them on your side when one of their friends is looking tasty.oh yes . you want her telling the other gals what a fine man ya are. ooooooooooooh....YES!!!besides growing isnt that bad.try it.
jeolousy is a natural feeling.but too much can tear you up. let it go.
this is my opinion. i'm 48 now. believe me;i been there.
2007-02-19 12:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by mechlined 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just a mix of everything. Take time to yourself to sort out your feelings because afterall, your the only one who can really tell. Obviously you still care about your ex to even care that she is with someone (your friend at that), and the fact that it's your friend makes it worse. And the fact that your not with the other girl isn't necessarily a bad thing. Just talk to her more and get to know her, she might be a better girl than your ex, but don't get with this girl just to get over your ex. As for your friend if you still wanna talk to him just don't be as close to him as you were, because friends don't do that sort of stuff. Toodles.
2007-02-19 12:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by no_trabajar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think your sad about you friend and your ex cause you guys probably had a history, and now its like over cause they are most likely together and happy. but there is still a chance that you can go out with the girl who isnt your ex, just give it time.
2007-02-19 12:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not with the girl you would like to be with and not your ex but is you still having feelings for your ex , it hurts to the guts seeing your ex going out w/ someone else
2007-02-19 12:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With meaning, by her side, or with meaning as your girlfriend. That sounds like someone I know-- same name, different spelling, same color hair too....
Anyway, it depends on who you are, I'm not getting personality type from this vague question, so I think that it's probably the first one.
2007-02-19 12:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time for things to become clear. I hope you feel better soon.
2007-02-19 12:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Wrath Warbone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋