MY PARENTS NEED HELP!!! THEY KEEP ARGUING BCUS MY STEP FATHER IS NOT TAKIN MY MOM OUT AND NOT APPRECIATING THE THINGS SHE DOES... FOR EXAMPLE: MY MOM CLEAN THE HOUSE YESTARDAY AND HE DIDNT DO NOTHING BUT SAY IN BED AND WATCH T.V AND DEN THE NEXT DAY HE HAS THE NERVE TO YELL AT MY MOM ABOUT MONEY... WHAT DO U THINK I SHOULD DO??.. SHOULD I JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE AND LET THEM WORK THEIR OWN PROBLEMS OR SHOULD I ATLEAST TALK TO MY DAD AND TELL HIM THAT MY MOM IS FEELIN UNAPPRECIATED
2007-02-19 12:22:28 · 6 answers · asked by ~Michy~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As much as its affecting you..it is a parent thing..and they need to deal with it themselfs..
If you really want to can talk to someone..and tell them how it is making you feel .
Because parents sometimes dont realise that when they have fights...it affects the kids too.
Theres nothing you alone can do to make everything perfect..you should pray to God that he will put peace in your household..and that he will give your mom strength and to give your step dad patience..
and pray for you to have emotional and spiritual strength too.
goodluck
2007-02-19 13:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. I know you feel that your Mom is right, and your Dad/stepdad is in the wrong, but they have got to figure out a way through this on their own. I don't think it would be bad if you said to them how their arguing and fighting causes you a lot of anxiety and you wish they could work this out, but to take sides is just not going to work, it's their disagreement, not yours.
2007-02-19 20:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone. If she already went through one guy, then she knows what makes and doesn't make her happy. She will get her point across one way or another. You can't defend her and hurt the relationship between you and your dad.
2007-02-19 20:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother....i'm almost sure that he already knows.......
This is something for your parents to work out on their own...
It's an adult thing....don't feel like you need to get involved...
Don't feel as if it's in any way your fault.....
you could ask your mom what she needs help with...
you'll make her feel appreciated........good luck...
2007-02-19 20:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should explain and talk to your dad
but i cant guarantee its a safe thing.
2007-02-19 20:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here is some advice:
2007-02-19 20:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Erik W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋