Okay, a lot of guys ask me out, but I turn them all down because I am not physically attracted to them, and I have turned down atleast 5 guys in the past 7 months....But they are all nerdy looking to me, plus Im not shallow, I just know what I like.
2007-02-19 12:15:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I dont think I am rude about it, I just tell them I am not interested in dating right now.
2007-02-19 12:22:23 · update #1
Usually if you dont know the person you usually do go for the people you are sexually attracted to and there is nothing wrong with that, most 95% of people do take notice of how people look, sexual attraction is an issue to alot of people it doesnt make u a b i t c h though. But sometimes getting to know someone your not sexually attracted to as friends usually leads to something more because usually they are really down to earth. Dont think your a b*tch because you just dont find them attractive every one does it, its not just you.
2007-02-19 12:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a b*tch would be going out with them, stringing them along (when you're not interested) and laughing at them behind their backs. So many girls date guys that they'e not into for the gifts, flowers, phone calls etc. THAT'S B*ITCHY.
You just do what you've been doing. If you're not attracted to these guys then why would you date them? If you don't know them then maybe you could go on a date just to get to know them and give them a chance. I love guys who are a bit dorky. Super cute! But if you're really not interested, don't bother.
2007-02-19 20:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by Snow White 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definetly does not make you a b*tch. You know what you like and you dont sound desperate to go out with any guy that asks. Just feel lucky that you are being asked out on a regular basis, some would die to be in your shoes.
2007-02-19 20:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical attraction is a huge part of a relationship. So if you don't like them it is your choice if you want to date them but you might turn down some really good guys that would treat you real good.
2007-02-19 20:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your are not one. You just have standards that others don't. You shouldn't lower them to satisfy anyone else. Don't let what other people say get to you. Every relationship starts with physical attraction. You have to have that before you even talk to the person. I hope this answer helps.
2007-02-19 20:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by nick6hq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in a way yes, but in a way no. if you know what you like...u know what you like... but i think your avoiding the fact that someo f them probably have amazing personalities and would be a good match if you made effort.
Just think of it this way.. you keep looking for a really hot guy that is finally visually appealing to u... and they may turn you down because theyre just not phsyically attracted to u..
2007-02-19 20:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by sourcherry119 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If your not attracted t o them, I dont see you turning them down as you being a bi*ch. You know what you want, and that is what you should stick to. Knowing that will make you happy.
2007-02-19 20:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really try io get to know a person first before you judge them. Unless they totally looked scuzzy Then I know I would turn them down.
2007-02-19 20:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would make you a b*tch is if you said YES to them, even if you didn't like them..so, as long as you don't reject them in a rude way, it's fine.
2007-02-19 20:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by steff0317 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you. It is their problem to give you the nerdy look. Just be nice and cool and do what you feel like to do.
2007-02-19 20:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by msjerge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋