I started seeing a guy and we've been out about 4 times on a date but he lives an hour away from me and he has college classes twice a week but other then that..is is just me or if he was real interested in me, would'nt he be wanting to call me atleast everyday or am i wrong?...then again maybe he's just taking it super slow..i mean we haven't done anything anyway except kiss but still...input please!
2007-02-19 12:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by Greeneyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen-Guys can be so slow at anything! Girls tend to overestimate them, Mabey if you start a habit of calling him, it might start to click. After a while of doing this, go 1 or 2 days without doing it. If he calls, then dont worry! Boys just dont read minds, so don't be soooo overworked!
2007-02-19 12:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by ChickAroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was dating my husband we lived about two hours away from each other (he was in college too) and we only talked once a week on the phone (every Wednesday). That didn't mean that he wasn't into me-we got married after two years of dating. He was just really busy with school and work, and besides guys don't like to talk on the phone. Or that's what my husband says. He still doesn't like to talk a lot on the phone and I don't care who he's talking to. I think you should just talk to your guy and tell him that it hurts that he doesn't call you often. He may not even know that you are being hurt. Guys aren't mind readers, sometimes you have to tell them and then re-tell them and re-re-tell them... Good luck with your guy, I hope it works out for you two.
2007-02-19 12:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... maybe he's too busy to call everyday. Every other day in the beginning of a relationship is ok too. Some guys think that talking everyday is too much. Just don't sweat it and go with the flow.
2007-02-19 12:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by jeneration Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should want to, but depending on the girl she might want to hear from u or might want just to be alone. So hopefully u kno the girl ur dating enuff to know when she might want to talk. Of you call when she is depressed(depending on the girl) She'll either talk your ear off, or hang up and turn off all the phones.
It's only natural to want to call everday, but don't get carried away cause you'll seem too desperate and dump u.
2007-02-19 12:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might find that he is being overbearing by doing so and is afraid that he will scare you off.. and maybe he also wants a little space and is preparing himself if it doesn't work out.. just tell him you like his calls and the like
2007-02-19 12:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO!
lol, Guys tend to be shy, and some people tend to think if they call everyday, they are some "BUG-A-BOO"
Otherwise he probably doesn't want you to think, he is annoying.
PLUS!
He is in school, and that is even more stress.
Hell! Im in High School, and one day is enough stress for me to want to be isolated.
2007-02-19 12:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys don't like talking on the phone too often, some try to play it cool and some just aren't as interested.
2007-02-19 12:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men NEVER call EVERYDAY!! They call when they feel like it.
2007-02-19 12:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve been on 4 dates..take it easy...you are already pushing him away
2007-02-19 12:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋