I met this girl at the mall when she was with her friend that I knew. So I told her I was interested in getting to know her and she gave me her screen name for instant messanger. The first time we talked I asked her where she went to school, is she single, etc. but I don't know what else talk to her about. How do I keep the conversation going without being boring?
2007-02-19 11:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lat her ask some questions
2007-02-19 11:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most important in all your relations with women should be the core mind-set. Don't treat her any differently than you would a male friend, except for the low-level flirting that should be going on already. Don't ask her if she's single, she'll let you know. Immaterial for your purposes. Start with an interesting story about yourself, something funny and a little self-deprecating. No stories about your ninja skills or how good you are at lacrosse. Keep it light, funny and a little absurd. Pat her on the head sometimes and call her a dork. Keep changing venues and do things together, or at least invite her out to stuff. Women want to talk about themselves. Let her do so, but keep your bullsh#t meter on. Call her on something that sounds far-fetched, or call her dramarama. Keep her friend in the loop and be solicitous of her, perhaps even more so than your target. Hope this helps.
2007-02-19 20:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by akhilleus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is ask her what kinds of things she's interested in. if you both like the same thing then start a conversation on that.
2007-02-19 20:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by blackwolfdemon_alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask about hobbies, sports, movies she has seen lately, what her favorite: movie, song, book, flower and color is! Ask about her friends and family. Don't ask yes or no questions, try to get her to elaborate about things. Good luck!
2007-02-19 20:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by shepherd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love it when you ask abotu them. as much and you might enjoy talking about yourself, as soon as she feels comfortable around you, she'll start askign you questions. just be open and kind and if a relationship was meant to be, then it will happen. and please dont' call her a sexy *****. you might get a slap across the face.
2007-02-19 19:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing something active with her. that will spark conversation gauranteed. the key is having fun. go for it.
2007-02-19 20:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the tension by telling her she's a "Sexy *****" and the rest should fall into place.
2007-02-19 19:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her her fav food or whatever. and then ask her out to like the movies or something. i would love that.
2007-02-19 19:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude you gatta go straight into the piont before you become borrinngg!!!
2007-02-19 19:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by mido h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her talk let her ask YOU questions
2007-02-19 19:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋