What is that all about and why does it have to be that way?...shouldn't things be 50-50 within a relationship?....why do some men think it is their right to take all of the control, leaving the woman feeling submissive, no wonder so many women lay back and think of what's for dinner the next day, and resort to the pretentious act of amping things up, why shouldn't the woman take control? why not she could teach you a thing or two, if she is allowed to take the lead, don't you agree?......let me know your views on this seriously.
2007-02-19 11:51:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's where COMMUNCIATION comes into play. If you don't like that your guy wants to always be boss in the bedroom, then talk to him about it. You've got to remember that for generations men were the boss everywhere and although women have come a long way (baby), old habits and traditions are sometimes hard to break.
If you want to be equal in the bedroom, then let it be known you will accept nothing less. Those that do nothing more than lay on their back and take it, don't care enough about themselves to try ot make a difference
Most modern day guys are more than happy to let the women take the reins sexually from time to time (if not most or all the time). The ones who think they have to be bedroom boss have other issues going on...control issues and whatnot.
Never settle.
2007-02-19 12:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about other men, but I love it when the lady takes control. Most of the time it comes out better for the two of us. Go ahead and take the lead,He will thank you for it.......
2007-02-19 12:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by phockit47 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Communication is good.
2. Both sides need to be pleased.
3. Both parties should get to show their creativity.
4. Even when things are in good shape with respect to #1-3, people need to be well-matched according to their desires for dominance and submission.
2007-02-19 12:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are lumping us all together.You must have had some bad luck in the sack huh.I play it by ear and if she expects me to lead I do but if she wants to lead I am all for it.I'm open to new things also so come on over and teach me I am a good student.
2007-02-19 11:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by harleyman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
seriously, I let the lady take the lead quite often, maybe even more than 50% of the time
2007-02-19 12:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by rabdcow72 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well whenever you feel like taking control do it, Put that bastar* in his place show him whos the man.
2007-02-19 11:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer G 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋