Hi every one i have been with my boy for 4 months now and he wants to meet up with a friend of his who happens to be a girl who he used to have feelings for so what should i do should i let him go? also hes been acting strange lately and i dont know if hes cheating how do i find out the truth.
thank u
2007-02-19 11:50:10 · 12 answers · asked by cilla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to take you with. meet the girl, start a frendship and then he will know that if he cheats on you you will find out
2007-02-19 11:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Guilty innocence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu have to let him, do what he needs to do. Just dont commit yourself to him anymore than he would commit himself to you.
you are both young, and he still may have a thing for this girl, and he has already made the decision to meet up with this girl.
If you start putting rules on him at such a young relationship and young age, he will drop you anyway, because neither one of you should have pressure to be with one another exclusively.
He maybe acting weird, not because he is cheating, but because he might not be into you anymore, and he doesnt know how to break it off with you.
I suggest you expand your horizons, and not limit yourself to this one guy. I suspect he wont be limiting himself to you.
He's just a kid, what can you expect out of kid with little life experience?
2007-02-19 11:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly i dont find it right for it to be your decision or not if he goes and sees this girl friend of his. you two have only been dating for 4 months. not 4 years. And a way to find out if hes cheating on you or not. is just notice his behavior towards you, like with sex, or companionship.
Dont tell him if he can see this girl or not. thats just wrong. Tell him if he would like to go see this girl, your okay with it because he deserves to have girl friends, as well as you do to have boy friends. And if your still a little iffy about him going to see her, ask him politely if you could go along with him, because you would like to meet her as well.
Hope everything turns out alright!
2007-02-19 11:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are with him now, Don't worry. Let him go. If you hold on to hom to strongly he will stray away. This is just a friend of his, so show him you are strong and can let him go.I f you have bad feelings after he met with person ,talk with him let him no you really care about him, and that you don't want to lose him, over another girl.He should at that point respect your feelings and realize that you are important to him.
2007-02-19 11:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have to question if u trust him u should just let him go. Maybe she really only is a friend and u should meet her but most likely he will always feel for her
2007-02-19 11:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm well you should let him go just to show that you do trust him, but it's my personal experience with guys that you should ALWAYS be suspicious.
If he's not giving you his full attention at a later date, or breaking plans with you to see her, definitely drop him.
2007-02-19 11:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by GCTA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey cilla,just let him hang out wit the girl!if hes cheating on you,ask him honestly and if he is,you have to accept it.if you dont,go do something about it!you can only stop love with love.(well not always,theres something called voodoo).if their just hanging out,having a regular time,just let them.
2007-02-19 13:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by Deanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. if you know he would never cheat on you and you trust him you should let him go. and maybe you can have a friend spy on them if it's like someplace public? lol
2007-02-19 11:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by curlyfry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let him go and without him knowing, follow him and later ask him what happened.then u will know if he was cheating or not.and u will know if he was lying.
just dont get caught!
2007-02-19 11:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Little1forLyfe!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts... if you feel it, most times it is unfortunately.
2007-02-19 11:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by 452 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋