Why do you have to be in perfect shape to get a girl?

Question

Why girls? why do you have to be so picky. I dont have a perfect 6 pack but i have a pretty noticeable one. Im not fat. I have a bit of fat but im not like Drew Carey or anything. I work out alot. Im not too bad. Why girls. I also have a huge physical problem. The problem is that im half-Korean. Koreans are unpopular with girls. Korean girls dont date korean guys who arent 100% korean. I hate being half-Asian. Its preventing me from getting a date.

Alot of slightly fat ones dont even talk to me why? maybe cause im part korean.

i would date a slightly overweight one.

im so desprate ill date guys and im disgusted by homosexuality.

im so desprate ill date guys and im disgusted by homosexuality.

Answer 1

would you date a fat girl?

Answer 2

They may just not be talking to you because they are terribly shy and don't know how to talk to boys. It may have nothing whatsoever to do with your looks or your ethnicity. It won't help you by assuming that the girls are being racist or too picky. Especially "slightly fat" girls--they tend to be insecure and worried about what YOU think of THEM...not the other way around.

Girls ask this question a lot--why are men so picky about the way the girls look?

If you're interested in becoming friends with a girl or having a girlfriend, the best way to start would be to simply try to make friends with one girl who attracts you. Korean girls are probably pressured by their parents to date guys who are purely Korean. It's not your fault. It's a societal thing. Being half-Asian should not prevent you from getting a date. Most girls I know are not going to reject a guy for that reason. In fact, some girls think asian guys are really hot. You are just too hard on yourself! Give yourself a chance to make some friendships with girls. The better you become at that, the more chances you'll have to turn a friendship into something more intimate.

If you are too self-conscious about your ethnicity when you talk to girls, they may sense that--or they may think that your apparent discomfort is because you don't find them attractive. If you will try to be more relaxed and just be yourself as you make conversation, they will relax too and you will find it's not that difficult after all.

Girls fall for a nice friendly personality, a guy who shows interest in who they are inside as well as outside. Be sweet and friendly and stop fretting about physical problems. It sounds to me like your looks are just fine! Be self-confident in your personality. That's the real key to a meaningful, long-lasting relationship.

Answer 3

I don't know what you're talking about, that's crazy! You can't get girls because you're half Korean and half Caucasian? Half Korean and half Caucasian guys are freaking Hot! Hot! Hot!

Example:

Dennis O'Neil and Daniel Henney are half and half and GORGEOUS! ^_~* (Models from USA, Actors in Korea)

Please don't think about it too much because it's just stress, if those Korean girls don't like you, then it's just them, not you, and don't worry, one girl will come along and love you for who you are and think you're the sexiest guy on Earth. You don't want be with a girl for nothing right?

My Korean girl friends aren't even dating other Korean guys, they're dating a Caucasian/Latino and Hmong person, lol.

Koreans are unpopular with girls? So wrong, every time I saw a half Korean and half Caucasian guy, I thought they were cute and I didn't even know that they were half and half until they told me, so you guys must be naturally attractive! Lol, yeah, I can't believe it, but every time I met or saw one, I practically drooled. I think I'm a decent looking girl, I'm not the creepy type that likes everyone, so please take my advice! Don't hate being who you are! Lol, if you were all white I wouldn't even consider! ^_^

Answer 4

You sound hot. Asian good. Asian very good. Half asian even better-- I'm also part Asian, (quarter Japanese), so I find this hot.
Also, let me be honest... looks DO matter, but these are not nearly as important as a great personality. If I want no personality and a perfect bod, I'll tear out an ad for Axe or something...

And you aren't a lazy bum... you work out. So keep it up. You probably just don't have good enough flirting skills and whatnot. If you do, some girl will like you eventually I bet.

Answer 5

god your self confidence hella sucks. I'm korean and I think half guys are hella cute. I think it's not your physical looks but rather your personality that may perhaps scare away girls? I think you need to calm down and stop trying to get a girl. You don't need a perfect body. There are so many couples out there of different sizes and different ethnicities. You need to be yourself and not be so paranoid. good luck :]

and if you're half Korean, you're bound to be good looking. And let's just say, korean guys are very popular at times.

Answer 6

People are shallow and they have this image of a perfect looking person etched into what little brain they have. Just be patient and know that not all of us women are like this. You sound like a nice charming guy and there is someone out there who will appreciate you so don't give up. My boyfriend didn't think he was my type because he's overweight and he saw a picture of my ex who looks like a male supermodel, but his personality and smile outshine his weight on any day.

Answer 7

thats strange, those that I know who are half-asian (and there arent many) turn out to be stunning. Maybe its not just your looks, it could be that your not sending the right signals to girls. try being a little more aggressive with your personality and less self conscience about your background

Answer 8

sounds like you need to worry about your self confidence first, before you seek women. Build up your ego, do things that make you feel good, take up a sport or hobby--and be the best at it. While your feeling good and getting in shape, flirt a little... eventually something will come around. but they wont unless you have confidence in your self! being happy for who you are!

Trust me.

good luck

Answer 9

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Answer 10

I've never dated a guy in "perfect shape" so I don't know where you get the idea it's mandatory. Women like all different kinds of men...perhaps it's just been that lately the ones you like haven't returned your interest. Hang in there, that happens to all of us.

Answer 11

I dont know who you have been trying to talk to but you should definitly work on finding girls that like you for you, not your body or your race. It will work out for the best. Not all girls are the same, we dont share the same damn brain and if we did I would be a sad sad girl. Try I know its hard but Try to do things that interest you besides girls, be yourself and THAT girl will notice you and like you for you . Trust me