ok well sorry if you all think i'm annoying but i need to ask around. this guy i've had a crush on for like ever started going out with another girl after he told me that he liked me. he's even told me his hopes and dreams and dark secrets that not even his girlfriend knows. right after i found out that he was dating someone else i was upset and momentarily hated him but then he pulled his puppy dog tricks. now i want him more than ever and my friends say that he seems like he's going out with me not the other girl. so please what do i do? i can't confront him cuz i'm not good at that. and i can't forget him because he's saved my life many times.
2007-02-19 11:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his firends hate me and like his g/f
2007-02-19 11:51:27 · update #1
you just stay his friend and be there for him when he needs someone to talk to eventually he will realize you're the one who's been there for him.
2007-02-19 11:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by darla s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he's conflicted on where to take his relationship with you....apparently he feels very close to you where he can share his inner secrets with you...there is a possibility that he's feeling that he would be taking a big risk by dating you as his girlfriend...after all, the friendship he has with you means more than losing you and jeopardizing the friendship...so the best thing for him to do is not create a emotional relationship with you. Its not that he doesn't like you or he's playing games...it could be a matter of him liking what the both of you have together and he doesn't want to ruin that if things don't work out...some people are not willing to take such a chance hon...
Oh, and your not jealous hon...you just want clarity as to what is going on with this guy...you want to know why he hasn't chosen you instead of her considering what you have...which is the obvious....that's not called jealousy...there is a huge difference when you want answers.
Good Luck.
2007-02-19 19:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by chyna0069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're really hurt, but it's ok. If he told you all that stuff, he must really think you're someone special to him. Let him take his time, but do you know that he's going out with someone for sure? Maybe he just wants to be friends, but good relationships start with friendship, so just don't bother about the other girl and wait for him. If he doesn't ever ask you out, you should try to, try starting by telling him how you feel, but if you don't want to and he just keeps on going out with other girls, he's not really worth it.
2007-02-19 19:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Claudia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it! If you really don't want to confront him, ask a friend to set up a date. Just make sure he's still not going out with the other girl.
2007-02-19 19:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you jealous..but hey cheer up you dont need to beg him to love you..Just dont show him that you really have a big crush on him try to ignore him sometime or dont give a special time for him.You dont need to forget him..if you still like him just wait and then maybe sometimes he ll realize how precious you are..
Or who knows you might met a guy which is MORE better than your selfish crush...
always smile...
2007-02-19 19:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by mariposang_gala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u are just hurt not jealous and u can meet avery good friend to explain or ur mom at she has experianced love in her life in the past before so she should know better
2007-02-19 20:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by A2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him babe... but only in person. no text or phone, she could be with him. you need to ask him if he is willing to give up his g/f for you. if he says yes then your all good but if he says no then say stop flirting with me and let me get over you then we can be friends. if he likes you then there is nothing stopping you from going out! good luck babe
2007-02-19 19:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you mean, life is so cruel, good luck with your story, i know mines too lost to be saved
2007-02-19 19:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋