I have gone through this 100's of times and everygirl I meet says oh looks dont matter and they say they like me for who I am? Well I just hooked up with this one we go out and then she suddenly stops calling and then texts me saying she is no ready for a relationship....I said your dumb....thats it....But why is it? I would think women would want a honest big guy that is a cuddle bug lol...rather than a skinny guy that is out with other girls and cheating not saying all of them do that just like big guys are not nice..But yea......
2007-02-19 11:40:33 · 13 answers · asked by Krayz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have so much respect for women and this type of crap happens you know it hurts makes me think I will be by myself forever
2007-02-19 11:49:11 · update #1
Yea I guess I am pretty picky...I like smaller girls tho....Not like bones..but yea...
2007-02-19 11:56:08 · update #2
I have a guy friend with a similar problem. He consistently goes after women who are unobtainable - either because they're quasi-involved, or he is not their type, or they otherwise show no interest in him. He's a big guy with a great sense of humor and a good job. There are several women I've known who've been interested in him, but he wants the hot skinny chicks who will break his heart.
I wonder if you're seeking the wrong type of women for you. I'm not suggesting you lower your standards, but perhaps you need to reevaluate what truly matters most to you in a partner, versus what you've been seeking recently. It sounds like those two lists are very disconnected right now.
And in answer to your question, I love a big man. I like my big, tall, corn-fed bubbas to cuddle into, to hold me tight, to make me get on my tippie-toes to kiss. I like that sense of protection, and realness. I would never date those hairless hard-bodies - I think they're gross, personally.
So don't assume all women are like those you've been with. For some of us(like me), an honest funny bubba is a dream guy. I wish you all the best in finding what you're looking for.
2007-02-19 11:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I used to pride myself on being very informed and in the current about every issue. I've found that I've backed off quite a bit more and feel a more happy person because of it. New York Times Week in Review tells me what I need to know. I take a daily glance at headlines, maybe skim the article but find that nothing really changes when you get down to it. Also, due to the area I live in at this time I am unable to watch television and the pricing is outrageous for cable. However, I have a feeling if I was able to watch it then I'd at least hear what the major stories are. Other than that, it's paper and online
2016-05-24 18:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think it's a matter of preference. I personally don't like "skinny" guys. I like some meat on the bones. Something to grab hold to. Well, it's unfortunate that you are in that situation but someone WILL come along and appreciate ALL the love you have to give. Don't let her choice be a let-down for you, move on, let it go, because there are plenty of other women out there who love to cuddle with meat rather than bones. Cool?
2007-02-19 11:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tuck0206 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are women out there that do care more for the bigger sweet guys than the skinny "supposedly sexy" guys. Women really do want men that are honest, and like to cuddle. The women who don't-don't know what they want-and definitely don't know what they are missing. We women who like the big, sweet, honest, like to cuddle kind of guys, usually do appreciate them. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-02-19 11:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Throw out the prejudice from one or two experience. The entire life and lifestyle are alterable according to circumstances and there is no such special common interest for anybody either individually or generally.
2007-02-19 15:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women like all kinds of different body types and personalities. Don't worry if some aren't keen on you, others will be. Just like you probably aren't attracted to every woman you see...its okay for people not to be attracted to you...it's normal...we all have different tastes and preferences...
Be patient...
2007-02-19 11:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at your grooming and your personality. Do you treat them with respect?
Sometimes girls are like guys, the person they are seen with makes them look good. Age old problem, nothing new.
2007-02-19 11:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like bigger guys if they are sweet. I don't like skinny guys who are vain and think they are all that. Sure it's nice to have someone who looks nice, but just because a guy is bigger it doesn't mean he doesn't look good.
2007-02-19 13:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by caramel_latte 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because their instinct says they shall be fast, amenable and helpful in the long innings of life span, rather than expecting to be respected and helped through-out
2007-02-19 12:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by J Sivaramakrishnan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My bf has a round mountian dew belly and he is not skinny because of it. And I find him sexy.
2007-02-19 11:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Deborah 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋