he lives in south carolina and i live in california...we were together for 5 months....and his mom said she needs him there with her. id do anything for him. id do anything for us to be together again
2007-02-19 11:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by tornprincess5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he moved to south carolina...and i live in cali. he broke up with me cuz hes bein "realistic" about the relationship. i really love him and would do anything for him. but i can only do so much because of my parents. im 16 gonna be 17 in june. and he thinks he cant afford to come back here. my parents arent the kind to let him live with me...so thats outta the question. i would save up to go see him...but thats gonna take a while. i just want him back...what can i do that will surely keep our relationship alive?
2007-02-19 12:06:03 · update #1
you will get over him...you may not think you will but I bet this time next year you will have forgotten his name.
2007-02-26 22:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experiencing an intimate relationship can be a very wonderful thing. And long distance relationships are really hard! Try to keep yourself busy with schoolwork and creating a social network while you're here. You still want to have other friends (i.e. platonic, not the romantic type) and a support system to help you deal with daily stresses as well as just plain "hang out". Write letters, pine away for your boyfriend, and in the meantime, have some fun, too!
If things were meant to be, they will be.
2007-02-19 19:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by jenniffervaughn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Constant communication would be ok. And if you know he loves you, don't worry 'bout it. But its gonna be hard because of the distance. Distant relationships need complete trust to the both of you.
Ask him if he really wanna be with you. See if he's gonna do something about it. If he does then thats great. If he ignored it, he's stupid and you should dump him, just like that and move on girl. If he wished but he really can't, you can take a trip and surprise him there. If you're willing to do it all, Live there.
I also have a distant relationship so I know how it feels. Just don't get too frustrated on him. I hope I helped you.
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the best thing to do now is to contact him. if he's online now thats great. you can e-mail him. or its gonna be better if you call him. talk over the phone. that may be a long talk but if you really really really wanna get together, i think you really have to do it. being far doesn't mean that you will be apart from each other. as long as your love stays.
2007-02-19 19:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by cutie06 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all right sisters here it is. all u women that are in a long distance realtionship need to to get this.us men love u all but while the kat is away the mice will play if u know what i mean.even when we are not looking and we go out to the club some thing could happen and no guys turn away some beautiful girls so think about it. you are our ladys but who is my hisho...
2007-02-27 18:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by jeremy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to South Carolina, get a job, get an apartment, and keep dating him.
2007-02-19 19:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
show him that visit him, send letters, call, show how much you care. let him know you haven't forgotten about him and you and being with him.
2007-02-19 19:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by CHRIS S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋