2007-02-19 11:32:50 · 23 answers · asked by lexi88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way, im 22.
2007-02-19 11:45:05 · update #1
honestly this sounds seriously stupid but just plod along in life like you normally do, go out with friends flirt snog someone you like (you'll make his day because your a hotty) - never seen you but Im guessing my hunch is right and it will mean you can kiss someone apart from your ex, your making out with another guy
sounds awful for me to say this because my ex probably did this lol but as a guy what I would say is be withsomeone who makes you happy the way your ex never did or very rarely did
good luck chick loads of love =)
failing all that girl or as an extra look at it how you want, mail me im only too happy to talk
2007-02-19 15:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Music fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl, I have so been there! Only I found out that my ex had gotten married. The best way to get over a man is with another! Even if it just takes your mind of things for a while, it is well worth it. Just do your best to occupy your mind with something else until it doesn't hurt so much!
2007-02-19 11:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts dear. You'll get over him soon enough it just might take some time because he meant that much to you. Hang out with your friends and family a little more. Use the time while you're single to do things for yourself. Take an aerobics class at your local gym. Also there's almost always some pretty fine men at the gym so you'll probably end up going out with one and forget all about whatshisname. Good luck doll and hang in there. You were fine before he came into your life you'll be fine in due time afterward.
2007-02-19 11:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually you grow up and it becomes east to deal with when your a child things hurt more as the pain is new but as you become an adult you have to deal with a new pain called love. I don`t know if this will help but this is the truth often when you look back at people you thought you loved you will think what was i doing find someone who deserves you and will love you like you loved your ex. Ps the best way to get over someone is meet someone new
2007-02-19 11:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a horrible situation that unfortunatly the majority of us experience at one time or another. Honestly, I hate telling you that it just takes time... but it honestly is all that you can do. The only thing Ive found thusfar that has helped me feel even the slightest bit better is the fact that it is scientifically prooven that impulsive moods typically only last for approximatly 20 minutes. And since your reaction to this is naturally going to be intense and quite strong, every minute your in pain is a minute closer to being over him.
2007-02-19 11:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. That would hurt bad. But life is shitty sometimes! You could go and **** up their relationship and try to get him back. haha. But you should put your feelings aside and think about his. If this girl makes him happy, then be happy for him, and you too will someday find a new guy that will take your mind off this old one. That's why they call it your FIRST love..because there are many more to come.
2007-02-19 11:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is a tough question. it doesnt sound like you will be getting your ex back, so now we have to get you back to where you were before you two met. i'd suggest really spending lots of time with good friends, and keep yourself occupied. over time, you will meet someone else, and you can look back on this time rationally. remember, time heals all wounds, and this will take time.
sorry for the heart break
2007-02-19 11:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by mark n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch baby, very ouch.
They say it takes about the same time away from them as you were with them to get over it.
It took me 4 yrs to get over the love of my life, just found out she's getting married, an strange as it is I'm really happy for her.
Hang in there babe, it takes time, just remind yourself that when you love your feelings are real an true, more fool him for letting you go, his loss.
Chin up, keep attacking. ; )
2007-02-19 11:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember the reasons why he is you EX. You will get over it soon. It is normal to hurt when he starts dating again. Just surround your self with your true friends and with people that love you. You will be alright.
2007-02-19 11:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't whimper, girl. The world hasn't come to an end.
Learn to accept life situations.
2007-02-19 12:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by wisdom tooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋