i really want a bf and im pretty sure im cute but it seems that the only guys that ask me out r so NOT my tye but i like this boy that is taken...what do i do?
2007-02-19 11:31:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait for him, but while your waiting look for other guys, and become his friend and learn more about him. maybe you'll find out u really don't like him at all. Good Luck = )
2007-02-19 11:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll you're a girl...and all girls are heart breaking crazy psychos...I don't mean to generalize, but thats the truth. The fact that girls like ONLY guys that they cant have, simply means you are still in the immature status of your life, and soon enough, you will be able to make decisions accurately, and with the ability to see a few steps ahead of you. The act of making decisions, without hurting others will take some time and some failures..but you'll get it right.
If he has a girlfriend, then I believe that he likes her, and unfortunately, probably does not like you or anyone else for that matter. Since I believe you're young, I think he would either break up with his girlfriend if he didnt like her, or would tell a friend to ask you what you think about him.
I would move on and find someone who LIKES YOU BACK, and who is available.
Peace, holla for a dolla.
2007-02-19 19:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by RelentlessArrogance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We often want what we can't have, maybe he only became attractive to you once you realized he was "off the market".
There's not much you can do as far as he is concerned. I think you should spend your time with your friends, go out and have fun and stop worrying so much about "having a boyfriend". You don't need a boyfriend to make your social life complete.
Once you stop looking, I'm sure you'll be surprised at how quickly you find someone. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-19 19:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you break them up and then he goes out with you. What makes you think he wont do that to you. Just wait. You will get a boyfriend. And oh, do not Ever lack confidence in your self. Don't say that you are pretty sure you are cute. Now that you are. Lacking confidence is limiting yourself. And the reason why you like him again, is because you see that he is able to be in a relationship.
2007-02-19 19:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound kinda stuck-up or just desperate. If it gotta happen, its gonna happen. Chill out. Forget about the guy who is already taken. That is not a healthy relationship. I doubt u want to be the fifth wheel. Have faith. The guys will come around.
2007-02-19 19:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait or meantime look for another but whatever you do dont ruin his relationship. Afterall you wouldnt want that done to you. Waiting for a lover is one of the hardest things in life. But payday is sooooo awesome. Hang in there. Be strong. Good Luck.
2007-02-19 19:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taken for a reason. Go out with a few of the other ones so that others can see that your not just stuck on one guy. Who knows,..if he see's ya out with someone else maybe it will draw him in/
2007-02-19 19:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by boobear735 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.. these things never work out, he'll be available soon. Then approach him, guys like it when a girl makes a move.
2007-02-19 19:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by Just a Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to find out if hes into you first. if hes not then try to forget him. anyways, you said youre cute so it shouldnt take long before someone else is interested in you. but if he is interested, then wait til he breaks up with his gf. if he doesnt, hes not worth it
2007-02-19 19:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Ariana*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget him, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-19 19:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋