might i add, this is my son's father, someone whom i've spent so much time and effort on.....
2007-02-19 11:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by Oo.HopelessRomantic.oO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you ask this question, how about this one:
"My husband cheats on me. Could he give me an STD that might be life threatening?"
Answer: Yes, he certainly could. That's a dangerous game indeed. Your feelings will have to come in second place to saving your own skin. I assume you also love yourself, am I right? If you are an honest person who doesn't cheat, then you deserve nothing less. You deserve a clean heart, mind and body.
...or maybe you like him sleeping with other women?
...oh please.
2007-02-19 11:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are madly in love with this jerk and you accept his cheating, you do nothing. You just go on hurting. It's obvious he's not going to change. Otherwise you dump him. You've spent too much time and effort, which hasn't worked. You gotta face reality. What do you really want: an unfaithful partner or freedom of body and mind?
2007-02-19 11:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi look i understand were you are coming from i have two kids with the man i spent 12 years making all effort two making a life for him an my babies only for him to cheat with 18 year old mind you i was 24 am know 27 an i have made the dissuasion that enough was enough an i haven't felt better i fell so much happier i still love him so much but i fell one day he is going to need me an i just wont be there that's what makes me strong cos nobody deserves to be cheated on
2007-02-20 15:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are willing to invest time and effort doesn't mean that the other person is so inclined. If you want someone that cares about you, then stop investing in a losing proposition, and find someone who will appreciate you.
If, on the other hand, you enjoy being a "booty call", then keep hoping for the best.
2007-02-19 11:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should stop wasting your time on someone who does not respect you at all! Dont allow this person to hurt you over and over.
Its better for you if you leave that scum who obviously does not love you in return!.
It will be hard to let go, but in the long run you will know that you have made the right decision.
2007-02-19 11:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Nace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sooo hard honey, but love yourself first!!! Get rid of him and show your son a good example. You dont want him growing up thinking its ok to "periodically cheat". It's not right at all, whether it's once or 10 times.You want to make sure he knows how to treat women with respect right? Show him you won't put up with being stepped on and he will learn to have self respect as well respect for others. Good luck!
2007-02-19 11:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Deana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing with my daughter father , when you get answers please let me know .also, he could be taking you for granted ,b/c he knows you won't and don't do anything about it . I can't tell you what to do but, it'll only get worse. good luck if you need to talk e-mail at simkaninp@aol.com
2007-02-19 11:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by phillygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the heck do you keep going back to him ???? dump him and change your door locks honey hes bad news once a cheat always a cheat
2007-02-19 11:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses and move on. Get checked for STD's
2007-02-19 11:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋