Been dating for five months without issue.........I think I've lost my mojo.....what to do
2007-02-19 11:28:53 · 16 answers · asked by makeurbrainhurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha..first no one can get away with mojo except austin powers...second...she must be a beastly creature to not be able to get you off....would a blow up sheep be in order?? i think so
2007-02-19 11:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by blah 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Not really enough info here. How often do ya try? In the past was it quick or did it last for a while? Too often can drain the bank so to speak or it could just be a mental lack of interest. Depends on your age also. I wouldnt worry too much, it will come back.
2007-02-19 19:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by boobear735 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be a medical issue? Do you have one when you are servicing yourself? Are you trying so hard to last a long time for her that you pass that "window of opportunity"?
Try different positions...don't try to hold it back if you feel it coming (no pun intended)...relax and don't be tense or nervous about climaxing too quickly or not at all...just go with it...
2007-02-19 19:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starters you thinking you lost your mojo aint helping you at all! you need to find what you love or like about your girlfriend. you need to have a emotional connection with her and that will help your sexual relationship out. if you care for her then find a deeper relationship! it will work!
2007-02-19 19:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by erika_moma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can happen if you are over stressed ,Diabetic or prostate problems ,get it checked out to make sure it is not a medical problem.
If all gos well then take a break you may be having sex to often .Different strokes for different folks . (excuse the pun ):)
2007-02-19 20:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may just be a sexual phase that you are going through where your body is responding differently to sexual desire and stimulation. Your inability to ejaculate during vaginal intercourse could also be directly related to something happening in your relationship, or with you personally. Common reasons why men have problems ejaculating during intercourse are: anxiety about their sexual performance, feeling unconnected to their partner, or personal issues of being preoccupied, or feeling vulnerable.
Levels of concentration for orgasm vary for everyone. Some find it helpful to "be in the moment" and focus on sensation, feelings, and intensity, rather than worry about the anticipated end result. Reducing pressure you put on yourself, taking the time, romancing yourself, and creating an atmosphere that turns you on can elevate the experience. Also, your thought patterns can influence your concentration. If you think "I'll never do this," or "I have work to do," this can work against you.
It's common for people to get annoyed or discouraged while trying to orgasm. When this happens, the trick is to take it to the next level. One way to do this is not to "give up," but to continue to stimulate yourself. Think of it as if you were on a diving board: you take a running start... when you get to the end... don't stop... take the plunge!
You may decide to take the plunge by experimenting with new sensations. People masturbate in different ways to heighten the level of sexual arousal. Some prefer using their fingers and hands, with or without lubricant. Others masturbate with sex toys, fantasy, or erotic magazines or videos. Kegel exercises can also increase sexual feeling and orgasmic intensity (see Kegel Technique). In addition, touching other body parts at the same time can add another dimension to pleasure — some enjoy stimulating their nipples, anus, neck, arms, and/or back.
One suggestion for making a smooth transition to ejaculating during intercourse is to have your partner stimulate you manually or orally until the point that you are close to having an orgasm. Then, quickly insert your penis into her vagina and continue the sexual act until you orgasm. You may also want to try to figure out what happens during oral sex that makes you orgasm, and try to incorporate it into vaginal intercourse. During oral sex, is your partner moving slowly, and gently? Do you experience deeper penetration with oral sex? Do you fantasize differently with oral sex? Whatever it is, try to emulate those sensations during intercourse. Talk to your partner, try to figure this out and experiment together. She may also have some great suggestions!
2007-02-19 19:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by jenniffervaughn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take mojo pills to get it back! Or find someone new to sleep with.
2007-02-19 19:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are no longer sparky with this person, then you may need to move on . If you care for her stay friends atleast. Don't stay in a dating relationship with a friend. Two seperate categories...
2007-02-19 19:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by tisdale 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im way to young to be answering this but I say spice it up. now I laugh, HAHAHAHAHA =D
you should consider watching that old lady on that show "talk sex" she has some nifty advice there. oh, I am being serious.
2007-02-19 19:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on what you are doing at that moment and try to not think of anything else,there is not much you can do...sorry
2007-02-19 19:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lay off sex/masturb*ting for a few days, and everything should be fine again.
2007-02-19 19:34:38 · answer #11 · answered by justanotheruser 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋