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i havn't mentioned it yet to him. the reason why i want to be homeschooled is because i just dont enjoy being around everyone at school. and i feel like an outcast. and its hard to focus in class.

2007-02-19 11:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by drummer g 1 in Education & Reference Home Schooling

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Even though it was put quite rudely in an earlier answer, I do agree that the first step is to examine why you feel the way you do. If you are having difficulty focusing in a classroom environment, being at home may not make that better.
First, tell your dad what is going on at school. If he agrees, then talk to a counselor at school (without mentioning homeschooling)
See if you can find out what is going on and why you feel like an outcast.
I'm not trying to discourage you from homeschooling, but I am trying to get you to see that if you want to homeschool to avoid dealing with something, it's not going to work. If you research what homeschooling is really like, your counselor is unable to help you, your dad is ok with it, and you have homeschoolers in your area that you can socialize with, then it may be well for you.
But, if you are using homeschooling as "the easy way out" of a difficult situation, then not only will that underlying problem still be there, but then you will have the added stress of maintaining the self discipline and organizational skill that homeschooling in jr high and high school requires of you.
Please move slowly on this, and make sure you have really looked in to this from all angles.

2007-02-20 02:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 6 · 1 0

Find a program you like, look up information on it, and make a list of reasons why you want to be homeschooled. Present your argument in a mature way. Don't whine and yell to get your way. If you are mature about it, your father will be more likely to take you seriously. I was homeschooled for the last two years of high school, and I became more social afterwards. Penn Foster and the American School are good programs that are accredited.
www.pennfoster.edu
www.americanschoolofcorr.com
These are distance ed. so your father would not have to teach you.

2007-02-19 13:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Catherine♥ 4 · 1 1

The answer isn't always homeschooling, but if you are desperate, here's what to do.

For a week or two, drop hints that you don't like school. Then sit down and have a good long talk about it. In the event that you do decide to get home-schooled, make sure that you are part of a sport club or something, otherwise you will lack in social skills.

2007-02-19 16:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ben 3 · 0 1

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2016-09-29 08:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by clawson 4 · 0 0

your best bet is trying to get your dad to understand why you dont want to be at school. if he doesnt understand, hes going to think you want to use homeschooling as a way to do less work.

i started taking my classes online this year because i didnt like the people i had to go to school with and it was miserable for me to have to deal with them everyday. it takes alot of motivation to work when you dont have a teacher forcing you to...

id look up home schooling online programs in your state on google, get some information and then go to your dad and tell him how you feel, and tell him about what it is you want to do..

2007-02-19 11:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by erenleree 2 · 3 0

To be homeschooled, you need to have an adult at home teaching you. Is either your mother or father available to do that? That person who homeschools you needs to get information from the school district on district or state curriculum, how to do testing, and they need to be able to write lesson plans of what they are teaching you.

Have you talked to a teacher or counselor at school about your feelings?

2007-02-19 11:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0 3

i have no clue, im having the same problem with my mom, i overheard my dad say its a good idea but my mom doesnt think she can,,,, i tried failing, skipping soo many days by playing sick, screaming about school, crying, talking about how i hate it, fake throwing up, blow dry my fore head to make her think im sick so ill miss school, i absolutly hate school too, so many anoying bugars out there and just mean snobs, perfectionests, people think im stupid but they just dont give me credit, try what im trying this year, do your worst in school and maybe he'll pull you out,,,, if you get any good advice email me( happy1st2003@yahoo.com) good luck,,,,

2007-02-20 07:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Hi, how the heck r ya? 2 · 0 0

First of all, do you have an adult who could stay home and monitor your learning? Do you know your state laws? Get the info and then sit down with your dad and explain. Just jumping into it might be a little overwhelming for him.

2007-02-19 12:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by joreo1 1 · 1 2

Well, you need someone (Mom or Dad) to school you, first!

2007-02-20 05:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by Leni 3 · 0 0

In that case you need counseling, not homeschooling. What will you do when you get out in the real world and can't hide?

2007-02-19 11:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 5

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